k i like this girl and i think she likes me a little but one little problem, she has a guy and people keep on sayin go out with her, but i cant. this is weird :\ i really like her too i dumped my last girlfriend for her and im goin through **** for her and now ive come on here to see what i should do caus theres nothin more i can think of... @_@

You're 15. Go find another girl.

ah dude, what have you gotten yourself into (_ _) *shakes head*

You're 15. Go find another girl.

c thats the thing, i dont want another girl... and i agree with Wolfgoddess,... c my problem??? x_x

Ah, to be young and in love.

Trust Dark Bring and myself when we say it is highly unlikely that you CAN'T find another girl. Just wait a few months and you'll see that the bond you thought were forming were actually an illusion set by your own -- for lack of a softer word -- selfish desires. Harsh? Yes. True? It's that too. There is a reason the phrase above is adopted so much. Just rest a little of your time on it and you'll see just why it exists.

But even that's beside the point. She's marked territory. That's pretty much in the off-limit zone.

ps. Please use the full stop. It hurts when you don't use your periods properly.

You're 15. Go find another girl.

Someone beat me to the quote.

Roxas, everybody chooses to do things differently.

I know that you don't want to give up. Not so easily. Not so fast. Not without having a go at it. Not without putting all of your heart into it, I know that there's something inside of you that tells you that you have a chance. That you can make the impossible possible. That you are The One.

And you know what? You may as well listen to that little voice inside of you. Do you know why I'm telling you this? Do you?

Because if you keep listening to us, these faceless, disembodied voices echoing in your head, that brave little voice of yours, will, one day, shrivel up, and die.

And you will become one of us.

like a soul without a mind
in a body without a heart
we're missing every part

give us your heart

lol, KH

k i like this girl and i think she likes me a little but one little problem, she has a guy and people keep on sayin go out with her, but i cant. this is weird :\ i really like her too i dumped my last girlfriend for her and im goin through **** for her and now ive come on here to see what i should do caus theres nothin more i can think of... @_@

Damm...Im 16..I havent even had a girlfriend TO dump >_<

My only advice is follow yer heart/mind/d!ck...as they say yer young...so you got time, never hurts to try..if it dosent work out oh well atleast you wont have that "what if" in the back of your head.

I say talk to the girl for real...seriously see if she likes you at all before you do something stupid.

yer, definetly talk to her. well really it depends to her boyfriend. will he kill you? or just laugh? or just do nothing? and the girl can stop him from killing you. go for it!

I would just go for her and see if she really wants too be with you! I'f she doesn't then its her loss. Then you can find someone else

Look at it this way, if she dumps him for you, where is your gaurentee she won't dump you for a different guy? Hell, you already dumped your gf for her, why wouldn't you dump her for somebody else?

Ah, to be young and in love.

Trust Dark Bring and myself when we say it is highly unlikely that you CAN'T find another girl. Just wait a few months and you'll see that the bond you thought were forming were actually an illusion set by your own -- for lack of a softer word -- selfish desires. Harsh? Yes. True? It's that too. There is a reason the phrase above is adopted so much. Just rest a little of your time on it and you'll see just why it exists.

But even that's beside the point. She's marked territory. That's pretty much in the off-limit zone.

Harsh, but true, as you said.

you're saying she likes you "a little". That's enough to justify that you've got the wrong idea. She doesn't really like you in the way you're thinking. If she really liked you she'd have dumped her boyfriend already. Sometimes you interpret things wrongly when you like somebody and that leads you to false hope. You're only 15, you'll find another girl that you'll end up liking just as much. As a rule of thumb, never go for another guy's girlfriend. Unless she dumps him for you without you doing anything, you shouldn't attempt anything for your own safety. How would you feel if later some other guy does the same thing to you?

You like a girl who has a boyfriend... Hm... I know a similar problem.
Don't tell her you like her. That might freak her out. Happened to a friend of mine. The guy told her that he "loves her" and she freaked out. But then he was kind of stalking her at this party but... yeah.
>>;;
Yeah... Basically, find someone else. You're young, you have time. I know this, I'm 15 myself.

I think it's kinda mean to dump people for someone else but at least it's better than cheating on them...

However if the girl doesn't dump her current boyfriend you're gonna feel like shit and all alone....
Also you said she likes a little but is that more than her current boyfriend? I don't think being the third point of the triangle is a good place to be because you're breaking up a happy couple~

So maybe if really insist on that one girl, wait for her and show that you care for her and at the first opportunity where she needs you most, be there~

well i just got the girls number and we talked 4 about 30 min so im satisfyed for now. :p

You're 15. Go find another girl.

*agrees*

I hate to say it, but all these series of anime/on TV you see about young people falling in love and not getting enough of each other and spilling our their hearts and feelings - it doesn't work that way!!
What you have at the moment is probably more of an infatuation. Dunno what the word means? Go to dictionary.com ^^
If you dumped your previous girlfriend for this other girl, it says more about you than it says about the girl you're after. Obviously it doesn't take much for you to call somebody your "girlfriend".

Lol, I must sound so harsh, but the reality is that you're young, she's young, everybody around you is young ~ and things will change all the time. Don't have your heart too set on this one girl cos you think she may be "the one".

I know the feeling.... In high school, I had this one girl who I really liked as a freshman but she had a boyfriend already. I tried to get her to like me w/out giving too much away. Eventually, her boyfriend broke up w/ her on the phone. She was alone then and I knew it was my chance but I couldn't do it yet because she was very hurt. After some time and becoming a sophomore, I was going to tell her how I felt but guess what....she hooked up w/ another guy out of nowhere! You could say I was a little mad but I didn't let that get between us. Later on, he dumped her too but w/ a letter. Once again she was upset and I was there for comfort again but nothing more. When we became juniors, I once again tried to tell her how I felt but she once again got another boyfriend. Unlike the other ones, he was a little violent and he even made threats and punched a wall near her face. I wanted to kick his ass but she defended him and my heart started to break again. As seniors, they finally broke up after several break-ups and make-ups. I finally had my chance to tell her how I felt because she started to show interest w/ me and we spent more time together. I knew it was my chance but I threw it away because I was amazed at the fact that I didn't love her no more. All 4 years of high school did I try to make her mine and went it happened, I couldn't do it. I felt like a fool going after this one girl because I passed up many other girls that I closely knew for her and by that time, mostly all of them had boyfriends. If you really want to be w/ that girl, then take a look at yourself and say why do you like her. If you dumped your old gf for her, what's so special about her that made you did that?

^Lol nice monologue Divine.

The chances of finding your soul mate at 15 are slim to none.
Marrying your high school girlfriend and staying with her 'til the end is 95%.
A middle school relationship is about 99.9%.
Give up, and move on. When you find the one, you'll know.
And I'd like to know the basis on which you like her. If it's because she's hot, then you're at a loss here.

You should let it go...
but if you don't want to, like Divine said, take a step back and find out what you like about her so much.
you're in a serious fix. like most of the people said, you're young! Don't put your heart on one person like that! You might get her as your girlfriend, but she might not be everything you pictured her to be. (that happened to me with one of the guys I liked. I thought he was all that until I hung out with him for a while-- it turns out he was two faced.)You have to take people for who they are-- the good and the bad. Maturity is extremely important in relationships.
Well, good luck with the situation. :\

Don't steal other people's girlfriends. It's lame and makes you nothing but a wanker. Find your own girlfriend and don't mess up other people's lives.

edit: and please work on your English. It's horrible. Read the forum rules. No chat/text talk allowed here.

fight guy and take girl!

dont take his advice, its obviosly not the right choice.

fight guy and take girl!

[F]ight [the] guy and [then] take [the] girl. -.- Your grammer is horrible.

Thats one of the dumbest ideas i've heard. If he fights with the guy it'll just make the girl think he's an asshole.

I'm with leon -.-

dont take his advice, its obviosly not the right choice.

He has "Lone Wolf" under his name. That must tell us enough about how successful he is in his social life XD

XD lol, oh nice one! Yea, i bet hes having some luck...psssh! Hee hee hee

fight guy and take girl!

Man...he didn't even try to think about the situation at hand at all.-_- Next time, can you please give a little more detail than that or atleast something that won't get him bitch slap by the girl he want. Saying something like that w/out a reason or any thought behind it isn't a good way for people to take your comment seriously. Please work on your grammar because we don't want another cody.:\

his grammar isnt very good just to note to

I would like to point out grammAr is how you spell the word grammar.

yea, and theres a magic button that helps me change that :heh:

same here :heh:
wait, we're off topic :\

Well she broke up with the guy last thursday with a note and the guy text me sayin "Katey dumped me for you!!!" and i dont like her caus shes hot, I have more than one reason for dumpin my last girlfriend, she treated me like i was a peice of sh**, keeps tryin to kick me where it hurts and punching me and tryed to choose my friends that I've know sence pre-school (proven fact), back on the subject of Katey, she treats me a whole lot better, makes me feel like i'm worth somin. I've talked to her and everything and we're into the same stuff, and everytime I look at her i feel like theres not anything else in the world that matters.

well, at least your happy right?

keeps trying to kick me where it hurts

Oh gawd. http://content.imagesocket.com/thumbs/emot_gonkbcc.gif


and tried to choose my friends that I've know since pre-schoolBros before Hos. :punk:


and every time I look at her I feel like there's not anything else in the world that matters.I think you shouldn't spend too much time on looking at her.

yep, im happy so weeee, and i agree with the bros before hos. thats true.

A fairy tale ending then.

Of some sorts, I figure :sherlock:

Until the next one comes up that is the "one".

im not sayin shes the one, she might be but then again she might not be, no one can tell the future compleatly, and i did ask her out about 2 hours ago, and she said yes. so I'm happy for however long we can be together.

A fairy tale ending then.

XD Just my thoughts.

im not sayin shes the one, she might be but then again she might not be, no one can tell the future compleatly, and i did ask her out about 2 hours ago, and she said yes. so I'm happy for however long we can be together.

you're relationship wont last forever unless of course you plan to get married~
but lets not get ahead, you're still young so enjoy/explore love while you can. when you become 18 it won't be that easy anymore~ ;)

indeed, you still have your whole life ahead of you, don't rush into things you might regret. As leonheart said, it won't be easy anymore

dont worry, i think that that its crazy rushin into things that fast

I hope she dumps you for someone else too. She probably will.

Ah, Angelic always likes to lighten things up.

Thanks. :sweat:

EDIT - Any updates Roxas?

Angelic don't be mean >>
sometimes love is found through strange means and the things we do to retain it aren't always pleasent. I mean sure most people who do things in the wrong way either regret it or get bitten in the arse, but we shouldn't wish it on others because judging isn't right if we aren't a part of the situation >> atleast that's what I think

Actually I'm surprised the other guy involved texted you casually about your now girlfriend dumping him for you...it's either an example of how young teens view relationships, or he didn't give a crap, or something else...an ulterior motive perhaps?

@angelic's comment - a bit harsh but it could be the dark twist in the "fairy tale ending"...

>> er... sorry to say that that is most likely what is going to happen despite my earlier comment. Reflecting a little I realize I was in a similar situation and got the ending Angelic just stated >>
Heres to hoping that your part of the successful relationship percentage:cheers:

People who steal other people's girlfriends don't deserve a girlfriend.
People who dump their boyfriend for someone else are likely to do so again.

So we just have to wait.

Amen, History Repeats itself, even if it's recent History.

True, true, true. Even on a smaller scale. I guess we'll just have to wait and see.

-Will the girl dump the guy for you? Is that what you want? Possible revenge and uncorrectly directed hate?
-Will the girl ignore you? Will you be 'just friends' even though there's that one rift in your relationship?
-Will you go on with your life? Forget this ever happened? Find another girl?

Ew I disgust myself. I didn't help at all!! :( I think you should talk to the girl. Or do whatever is the hardest to do. Which most likely would be talking to her.

Oh whoops. I didn't read the whole thing. Seems as if she'd dumped him for you...Sorry if I'm rude, but..."How rude!"

You dumping a girl for her, her dumping a guy for you...when will this end??

Good luck with your relationship. Remember you're still young :lol: And whoever you choose to be with now probably won't matter in the long run. Just as long as this goes well and ends without regrets. :heh:

~Superficial High School love has been broken hearts countless times~


MOD EDIT: Posts merged.

Well, he got the girl already. It's more like will he be able to keep her is the real question here. Like, for the sake of irony, will she dump him for someone else or will he do the same which was exactally what he did before to get her. I'm more worried what the ex boyfriend is doing since I heard he even texted roxas in a formal way.

Edit: Oh, and make sure you don't double post. It's not well liked or allowed in here but I did the same thing when I first came here so it's no biggie. Just use "edit" if you want to change or add anything.

Well right now im sitting in a class with him (the guy that she broke up with) and were back to friends, I asked her to the christmas dance and we went and I kissed her, and if you think about it I really didn't steal her from him.

No, it proves that she's fickle.

You mean she won't stay with him for very long either, right?

This thread is making me laugh. Especially Angelic's comments. XD
Kids. Are frecking. Crazy.

Well duh... kids have too much free time and too many unreliable resources.

This is still alive :yawn: Your all saying the same thing and he never listened to any of you anyway.

This is now to make quirky comments on relationships, and the idea of stealing women. XD
Well I think it's safe to say what happens happens and it's just our determination and focus that help determine outcomes not our techniques ._.;

There are techniques?

I see. So that must be the purpose of those crappy pick-up lines that my man friends run by me for a rating. Poor little dicks are never gonna get any girls. Not with those lines, hell no.

Oh man pick up lines are funny XD but idk I guess I should not have said techniques I guess I meant our plans? that doesn't sound nice either... well I mean the way we would do it..

There are techniques?

I see. So that must be the purpose of those crappy pick-up lines that my man friends run by me for a rating. Poor little dicks are never gonna get any girls. Not with those lines, hell no.

Techniques is what both machos and nerds call it. Nerds don't understand them and wonder what they are, Machos don't understand them even though they think they are the masters.

Real men don't need techniques. They just wait until they run into the right person ;)

In that case, I want a real man.

I agree that there is a shortage of real people in the world, but people having methods for dealing with problems don't make them weak. I didn't mean technique in the sense that it's something you do everyday, which is why I tried to amend what I said, I meant that we were pointing out the path we thought he should take and gave our moral support or argument. ._.;
Real people are made mostly through compromise of weaknesses in character.

There are techniques?

I see. So that must be the purpose of those crappy pick-up lines that my man friends run by me for a rating. Poor little dicks are never gonna get any girls. Not with those lines, hell no.

I want to hear some of them. Could give us all a laugh.:heh:

It's not the end of the world . Keep your head up because good things are still to come. She's not the only one. You can find better and what ever choices she makes you just have to accept it and move on but it depends if you really do have this strong feeling for her. It's all just confusion and loneliness all mixed in a complicated situation. lol hahah sorry just some advice or things to say from a stranger.

reagine

keep away, taken people=off limits and if you steal em ur considered an @$$hole, at least by everyone i know you would be, if she likes you and you like her at some point you'll end up together, that's the big game in all this...patience

dude, when the girl is taken, get another one. do yourself a favor

i was randomly browsing and thought the title said "what should you do if you like this girl but she's a guy"

o_0

i think i should go back to bed lol

lol @ dildoman i saw that too but i think painkillers are screwing with my head ><

Oh! for a while I thought dildoman was a member name so I went looking XD
Anyway how do you all think this is going?

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leave her alone.

ortsuhersy-08

You should, like, never be a marriage counsellor.

lmao, I like simplicityho's idea honestly. XD