I have a huge fucking crush :mellow:

That sounds huge alright...

i think im the biggest loser around here. i missed my chance. i went to my dads on the last day of school so i cant tell her. The last chance for me is to ask my friend if he knows anything because i know that there friends. :/

Originally posted by Roy Mustang@Jun 3 2005, 11:43 AM
I have a huge fucking crush :mellow:
lol, i couldn't help but notice your post, you say it so...straight faced... XD i didn't know you were allowed to swear on ichigos... :o

it says u can but its not recomended

no wonder ichigos is blocked from our school servers...

back to thread...

it turns out all 3 of the boys i really liked alot were going out with different girls in 2 weeks...boy...one sad surprise after another...and all of the other girls are my friends too...(apart from 1) *feels like the only one left on the shelf* i feel so ugggglyyyyyy.....TT-TT

sry about this off topic thing but right time to say it.

I know how to get on here when im at school.

o that happens to me alot too. im sry. :(

i feel so ugggglyyyyyy.....TT-TT Woah! Shizzy you are NOT ugly!! It's their loss!!

naaah...i ususally dress up in a loose navy shirt, Black trackies and old running sneakers...and then...whola...a transformed Shizzy...i do look like a Tomboy when i am not dressed up...

i agree with fob. if the person doesnt like you for who you are than there not worth it.

you guys are more than right.

yah dont beat yourself up like that.

Originally posted by badgerglue@Jun 3 2005, 04:51 AM
i think im the biggest loser around here. i missed my chance. i went to my dads on the last day of school so i cant tell her. The last chance for me is to ask my friend if he knows anything because i know that there friends. :/
wah! X_X quickly, use the friend angle!

I'd still have a chance after the school ends... We're in the same confirmation group, plus.. my best friend's big brother is a very good friend of her big brother.

*curls up* Kyaa, I can officially announce my first crush in the history of my everness. *wistful sigh* Although I&#39;m under the impression crushes majorly suck. You then have to somehow get the crushee to notice your existence.. *sigh* So much effort required >_<

hmmheres stuff you always read about or watch on t.v but whats your view on having a crush on your best friend

I wish&#33; :drool:
I would rather have a crush on my best friend because I&#39;d be comfortable with telling them. The problem with crushes, as Dessie said, is that sometimes they don&#39;t even know that you exist.

Originally posted by Igneus Descent@Jun 5 2005, 11:34 AM
*curls up* Kyaa, I can officially announce my first crush in the history of my everness. *wistful sigh* Although I&#39;m under the impression crushes majorly suck. You then have to somehow get the crushee to notice your existence.. *sigh* So much effort required >_<
Waaaaa, you&#39;re right Des-chan~&#33; I like a boy at school.... but he doesn&#39;t know I exist, it&#39;s soooooo hard to get the crushee to notice the crusher~&#33;&#33;

I would rather have a crush on my best friend because I&#39;d be comfortable with telling them

really. well when i liked a best friend she hated me.

aww, badger&#33; that sucks&#33; How was she you best friend if she hated you, though?

heh... I used to have crushes on a LOT of girls before Chii came along, most of them knew I existed, just not that I had the crush on &#39;em XD

aww, badger&#33; that sucks&#33; How was she you best friend if she hated you, though?

she hated me because i liked her. but before that we were best friends. atleast i consitered her a best friend. now she wont admit that we were ever best friends. :(

She HATES you because you LIKE her?&#33;&#33;
Man, she&#39;s odd&#33; Stay away from her&#33; :blink:

what a meanie... *agrees with ^*

i met my girlfriend one day randomly. she came up and gave me a lap dance. awkward, but thats how we met. ......

crush just end up with people upset, love ends up with people hurt

I guess, you just gotta keep looking, if not actively,, keep looking and dont let a chance slip away

ahh its mad i tell ya. I&#39;ve had a crush on this girl since year 9 (5 years ago) but this girl is like wayy out of my league. So despite always liking her I saw it as dead hope and decided to move on. We met again after leaving school 2 years ago and I was a changed person, more out of my shell. Of course my feelings for her hasn&#39;t changed. We got really close, best friends and now she&#39;s like a little sister. I can never be good enough for her so I can only do the next best thing and try and make sure she has the best. I try to look out for her and such. She knows I like her, I told her, nothing was really said except that I have always been there for her. It&#39;s weird. When its someone this close to you it makes it harder to make a move than if it was someone you hardly knew

I can never be good enough for her so I can only do the next best thing and try and make sure she has the best.

:cry: That. Is. SO. sweet&#33;&#33;

btw who says you can never bee good enough for her?? If you&#39;re willing to take care of her and love her isn&#39;t that enough??

sephiroth, i understand. if u remember my older posts, i too have stated the same thing, pretty much with the exact same words. funny little world aint it? *is in a state of mixed emotions*

fob, if only it was that simple. mabe it is, and im just an idiot. *kicks self*

You&#39;re not an idiot&#33;
Lol I blame that fact that you guys are male and therefore can&#39;t think clearly/like a female can :halo:

But yeah I guess I can understand what you guys mean. It can be hard in a situation like that.

*bawls like a six year old who has scrached his knee*

no duh i cant thik straigh&#33; im an emotional wreck&#33; ive got two distinkt personalities, (this is confusing, i feel like im a siamese twin....) *introducing me, an me&#33;* hi, my name is *name removed for privacy*, im mostly antisocial, hi, im *name removed for privacy* and im mostly friendly), the only thing that we share in common is the complete insanaty of something thats past the point of pure 100% love *owwww my head hurts**owwww my head hurts*.... whoa thats weird... u can say that again... (funny how one can have a convo with onself.... yes it is...( im gonna have to stop doin that...-.- ))

shade, you shouldnt rip yourself apart with these feelings, its not good and you end up like me going mad now and then for no reason.

You just gotta let things happen. if you want to change who you are then go for it.

@Fob, lol. you&#39;d think that, wait till you meet my friends, the guys are more emotional stable than the girls ^_^

Originally posted by Fob@Jun 11 2005, 08:47 PM
Lol I blame that fact that you guys are male and therefore can&#39;t think clearly/like a female can :halo:
Fob lets wage a war shall we? :devil:

Well you shouldn&#39;t let emotions overrun you anyways,
have control over your emotions so you don&#39;t have to take any unnecessary pain.

But on the topic of crushes..

A girl had a crush on me a while back, and TWO of her friends (one being mine also) actually told me how she felt.
Hmm personally I think better they didn&#39;t. Fate had it on me, though, because a THIRD told me afterwards. Man. Why?

Oh Seph: Good man, good luck&#33; ^_^

Edit: Screw the war, I&#39;m going to bed. Good night.

@ fob: as for us guys, you&#39;d be suprised, there are some who are like me, and im considered to be one of the very rare minority who can actually understand girls in their thoughts and emotions.

I dunno, I&#39;m kinda worried at the moment. I&#39;m waiting for her to come back from the download festival, which is a massive rock concert which lasts 3 days. In the mean time she went with one of my friends who really likes her as well. The problem here is this guy is like a playa, I&#39;ve introduced him to girls before where I trusted him to treat them right and he basically got what he wanted out of them then moved onto the next girl like 2 weeks later. Im hoping that somenthing doesn&#39;t happen between them because he doesn&#39;t deserve her.

I dunno, I think I&#39;m going to wait for her to come back then choose a night where she is available go and visit her and sit down and talk to her. For me who understand girls, and can pick up any subtle hint from them. When it&#39;s someone this close your left in the dark and there are no hints. because they do the stuff they do because they are comfortable around you. It sucks.

@shade, yea man I know exactly how you fee. I&#39;m kinda a man of 2 halves as well. 1 half is a party guy, out going fun and cuddly. The other half is quiet and sensitive, who likes to be mellow while listening to soft music and dreaming about comforting thoughts

at least i know im not alone... *listens to voice in head* (ur never alone, u got me, stupid&#33;)

:ph34r:

ok that was just plain freaky.

Originally posted by Sephiroth@Jun 12 2005, 12:27 AM
I can never be good enough for her so I can only do the next best thing and try and make sure she has the best.
That&#39;s exactly the thing I try to do. Because I&#39;m too shy to talk to her more frequently, I help her out with Latin vocabulary, so that she knows what&#39;s going on in the lessons.

hey kappa, try to meet up after classes or something. i know its hard, i was shy too. small, steps man&#33; thats my advice small steps.

one of the reasons that i want a gf is because my friends think that i cant get a gf. they just make fun of me. and ive had it with that so i want on for that and for my own experiance.

i want to know stuff like:

1.what is it like. since i have never had one.
2. how do i talk to girls i like
3. how will it affect my life.
4. will i like it
5. and the last. will i be a good boyfriend to some1. that wat i hate about ppl that dont give u a try. because u dont know how they will treat you.

Originally posted by badgerglue@Jun 14 2005, 12:15 AM
one of the reasons that i want a gf is because my friends think that i cant get a gf. they just make fun of me. and ive had it with that so i want on for that and for my own experiance.

i want to know stuff like:

1.what is it like. since i have never had one.
2. how do i talk to girls i like
3. how will it affect my life.
4. will i like it
5. and the last. will i be a good boyfriend to some1. that wat i hate about ppl that dont give u a try. because u dont know how they will treat you.
hey badger. if this advice is wrong, dont hunt me down, but its been ok for me so far.

now before i start, hear this. try not to push yourself to get a gf only because of peer pressure. i recommend getting a gf because u like someone, or someone likes u. this gives the relationship a chance. regardless of anything, get a gf if u want to, ok?

1. having a gf should be enjoyable. you should be having fun ( the defenition of fun is up to u, im NOT suggesting ANYTHING, OK?) with your gf. if your are not, and you are unhappy, well mabe she shouldnt be your gf.

2. if u like a girl, try to be careful of what u say. some girls may tend to take something u said in a bad way, and this can result in u bieng called names and such. just pre-formulate what you want to say in your mind, and relax&#33; you dont want to start studerring. i studder, but with a bit of concentration, and if i talk just a bit slower, (not too slow) that can be avoyded. also, try not to complement too much too soon. ths is a good trick. instead of talking to this girl as you would a gf, talk to her as you would a normal friend. it makes u look less nervous and more friendly. this is good.

3. it migh affect your life in many ways. if you have a relationship with a gf you like and vice-virsa, the change should be positive; your mood should be more :D than -_- . it is also time consuming. be sure to spend time with ur gf. warning. do not spend too much time with her. no one needs to be smothered, everyone needs their time alone or with their friends.

4. answered in 1.

5. badger, you should be a good bf. remember, the mind and the heart are spokes on the same weel, lacking one u lack both. use your brains and your feelings or ur not gonna be happy. yo gotta work hard to make a relationship work.

hey, if u dont like my advice, skew it. i dont think its that good since i dont have a gf myself. ill change my sig when i do. ( my sig really is fit for me....) <_<

cheers, good luck.

I agree with shade. If you get into a relationship for the reasoon i want to know what its like also to shut your friends up. The relationship aint gonna work, it might but you wont enjooy it as much as you should.

For me I had so much emotion built up inside me I was gaggin for someone to share them with. But unfortunately I found the wrong girl, and I poured all of my soul, trust and feelings into that girl and I got seriously hurt, and physically ill over it. She dumped me and I kept thinking what I did wrong.

I found the wrong girl but I had all the right motives and reasons. Go for someone you feel you can have a special bond with. When your in a relationship you never put yourself 1st, always last. And it should change you for the better

Originally posted by Sephiroth@Jun 14 2005, 09:06 AM
For me I had so much emotion built up inside me I was gaggin for someone to share them with. But unfortunately I found the wrong girl, and I poured all of my soul, trust and feelings into that girl and I got seriously hurt, and physically ill over it. She dumped me and I kept thinking what I did wrong.

shepiroth....

im so sorry. that must of hurt. i cant imagine what pain you must of been in. that girl had no wright to dump u like that. you trusted her and she spat it in ur face. *shudders in disgust* seph, it wasnt ur fault. dont beat urself up for someone elses mistakes. you, of all ppl, had the strenght to share your feelings. some ppl are afraid of sharing their feelings. you werent. you have every right to have the greatest most wonneful gal.

thanx man it means alot. she had every right to dump me. as does everyone have the right, a relationship is a 2 way thing, if 1 person aint happy it cant work. Ive got to be more careful with who i choose. as should everyone.

What if her big brother is a very good friend of one&#39;s best friend&#39;s brother? And she and your best friend knows eachother a lot, but you know your best friend isn&#39;t in love with her. If he kinda "steals" her from you, without even knowing it. What do you do?&#33;

sephiroth, i didnt mean she wasnt allowed to dump u, just that she wasnt allowed to dump u the way it seems she did. i meant if u have to dump someone, dump that person in a way thats not as harmful. sorry man, i should of been more careful.

awww man, the end of the year is in like two days&#33; i cant beleive it&#33; ill have to say goodbye to the special gurl... :cry:

(is this considered as like duble post or...)

*bumps* so how is ppls crushes

My friend recently showed me this article about having a crush on a friend and going after that friend . . I think it&#39;s all true =P

Show spoiler (javascript:void(0);)<span style="display: none;" id="QUOTE"> __ WHY IT&#39;S GREAT TO DATE A FRIEND __


You may have heard people saying, "Dating a friend just ruins the friendship." This may even sound like good sense to you. But we are here to tell you, it&#39;s a stupid rule&#33; Dating a guy friend could be one of the smartest things you ever do. Here are 5 reasons why dating a friend rocks.

Reason #1: More is Good
There is a reason that people use the phrase "more than friends." A relationship is more than a friendship. So don&#39;t become more than friends until you are friends first&#33; What this means is that when you really like someone, BECOME their friend before you even think about being anything else.

Reason #2: You Protect Your Heart
Sometimes you might really want a relationship with someone who you don&#39;t know that well. They might be great looking, or you think you know what they&#39;re all about. But then you date them, and you realize they aren&#39;t really right for you. If you start off on a friendship level, you will figure out this information BEFORE you lose your heart. This is a neat trick to avoid the pain of a failed relationship. Plus, since you could still think the guy is nice - just not dating material for you - you might even make a great new friend in the process.

Reason #3: A Nicer Future Ex
If you become friends with someone and then build the relationship from that foundation, you can always remain friends if the relationship doesn&#39;t work out. Maybe that won&#39;t happen in every situation, but if you are not friends first, there&#39;s a very good chance that you won&#39;t be friends afterward.

Reason #4: Great Building Material
A friendship is built on many of the same things that a great relationship is. These include trust, respect, caring, and a mental and emotional connection. When you think about it in these terms, a relationship is a natural extension of a friendship. By starting with friendship, you develop the building blocks that will allow your relationship to stand strong, to make you happy and to last.

Reason #5: The Wow Factor
Being able to have a deep or hilarious conversation with your best friend, and then to be able to share physical affection like snuggling and kissing with them, is the best feeling in the world. A best friend/boyfriend combination is one of the best recipes for relationship happiness there is. </span>

its summer now, not seen er hurts a lot.

sorry man :(

if you ever bump into her say ahh yea e should stay in touch. should have done that before you left. that way your near guaranteed to get her number. then its up to you how you play it. for now its just a waiting game i guess. but fear not. people normally have reunions once people start hitting 18

Originally posted by shade@Jun 16 2005, 03:06 PM
awww man, the end of the year is in like two days&#33; i cant beleive it&#33; ill have to say goodbye to the special gurl... :cry:

(is this considered as like duble post or...)
couldn&#39;t you just have gotten her phone number?

i got her e-mail, so i can work with that. its just that im just used to seeng her often, and now i cant :cold:

Mail her then (or talk on MSN) and ask if she feels like doing something fun ~

its wut i plan on doing, my msn is on like permanently ^_^

Scenario - i have a friend and calls him my older brother...coz hes cares a lot about me and stuff....and hes like a brother to me....so i call him that

Problem - i was less than 40% sure that he had a crush on me before...but then i have declined that thought.....but recently im 98% that its true.....and i have hinted it to him that i cant like him that way coz hes my "brother" many many times....

Q&#39;s - what do i do?

Don&#39;t say &#39;&#39;its not you, its me&#39;&#39; because we just rearrange that to either &#39;It is clearly you&#33;&#39; or &#39;if you&#39;d change a little bit...&#39;
The second one is a killer. He&#39;ll stalk you like an elephant who&#39;s had its first experience with some &#39;acid&#39; *cough*

Whatever you say, just end it with &#39;I&#39;m sorry but I will never see you that way&#39;&#39;.

Don&#39;t describe him as a good friend or a brother during the process. Its a killer.

Try not to be the spiteful type and claim to be in love with another. That kind of answer really kills.

I have no idea. Just wing it. There is no way this isn&#39;t gonna end badly.

whoa DM&#33; that sounds like the situation from the korean drama "Stairway to Heaven". it did not end pretty... well it did but it was complicated.

anywyas, has he told you himself that he liked you? if not, you&#39;ll just have to play dumb when he gives you hints or something. and tell him "i think i like this guy. what do you think, brother?" and stuff like that. hopefully it&#39;ll get him off your back

heh ok DM as zach has stated there are somethings you have to do when letting him down and im probably gonna be repeating what zach said.

do not try and brush things down or sweeten them up, by saying we&#39;re too good of friends, because some people distance themselves in order so that its not that case. the more sweet you try and make it the more he&#39;ll be angry. dont be spiteful because he&#39;ll also be angry. just be serious and calm.

you have to be clear when turning him down. be sure to let him know there will never be anything between you ortherwise he will keep trying and he&#39;s only gonna hurt himself more.

selfish and stupid as it is some boys hold onto hope even when their rejected and later when they rejected they blame you for not being clear in the 1st place. leaving them to believe there was a chance.

its harsh my dear but it has to be done

Originally posted by dying1004@Jun 23 2005, 11:44 PM
whoa DM&#33; that sounds like the situation from the korean drama "Stairway to Heaven". it did not end pretty... well it did but it was complicated.

anywyas, has he told you himself that he liked you? if not, you&#39;ll just have to play dumb when he gives you hints or something. and tell him "i think i like this guy. what do you think, brother?" and stuff like that. hopefully it&#39;ll get him off your back

We aren&#39;t that selfless and we won&#39;t deduce the possibility that you want us to back off from just that. All that will do is make him try harder for your attention.

Edit: Plus, this guy you&#39;re pointing to might run into a series of unfortunate events :devil: ~ :nosebleed:

he hasnt yet told me clearly....coz a friend of his asked me since im his "sister" and i didnt know...so i kinda asked my brov, and he wont tell me who this girl was so i started to guess and made him describe her...and all the description fits 2people that i know of (since i suppose it has to be someone that i know otherwise he wouldve told me..) which one is me and the other girl which there is not as much chance that its going to be her since they hardly know each other.....hence the missing 2% sure = the name of the girl

Stairway to heaven i never got to watch the end :cry:

and those are the hints that i have been using since i first thought he liked me.....just seems like its not working is all......

I think zach and sephiroth are right.

Only thing I&#39;ll say is don&#39;t try to hint anything. Just be normal because it might not be you. If he does tell you, you should tell the truth. As seph and zach said, don&#39;t dawdle, be direct. Guys take it well worse than girls do for some reason. Maybe the best thing to say if he does tell you what you think is that you don&#39;t see him in that way and that you&#39;re interested in someone else with a sorry but that it was really sweet of him to say that. But still you can never be sure that he likes you based on what he has said. :mellow:

Anyone want to help me with my problem? I&#39;ve liked this girl for about 2 years and have asked her out twice, but she does so much stuff. I wait for her to say something, but nothing. We both really like each other, but there isn&#39;t enough time. What do I do?

hmmm you asked her out twice. what was her reaction both times. how do you know that she likes you as well. its tough man not enough info to give an exact solution to your problem but................. you could just ask to go somewhere, whether it be for a drink (if your old enough) or to go shopping or something. have some fun bowling or playing pool. Try and go on an eventful day with her joke about and get a bit flirtatious. Judge how she acts from what you do and it should help you decide whether to make a move or not. if time is running out then dont sit on your arse, get moving or you may lose that opportunity.

both times, it was that she really likes me, wants to go out with me, but too busy, which is basically the same story for me. We basically do different things at the same time. Drinks are a little out of the question, i&#39;m just slightly underage :P but i see what you are trying to say. I know what i need to do, but I don&#39;t have the confidence. I feel just about like giving up on finding love...

never let confidence get in your way. I used to have no confidence just like alot of people. I built mine up by saying this to myself and you have to considering your running out on time. People here have heard me say this before but its soo handy.

nothing pursued nothing gained. he who dares wins.

if you dont try your gonna end up with nothing. theres not even gonna be a slight percentage of you getting anything because you havent put yourself out. at least if you try theres a chance however big or small that you could have what you aimed for.

I say its an insult to yourself to give up due to no confidence. think about it, ahh yea i really like this person no wait im gonna give up on her because i have no confidence. its only hard on yourself for having to give up those feelings without even trying to get what you want.

best way to describe what im trying to say is shopping. you see something in the window but theres only 1 left. you dont have enough money to pay for it. you can either give up and say ahh i&#39;ll never have enough money to pay for it or you can say right im going to save up for it. by giving up your never going to have it. at least by saving up you have a chance of getting it

Originally posted by mystery_editor@Jun 29 2005, 01:09 PM
both times, it was that she really likes me, wants to go out with me, but too busy, which is basically the same story for me. We basically do different things at the same time. Drinks are a little out of the question, i&#39;m just slightly underage :P but i see what you are trying to say. I know what i need to do, but I don&#39;t have the confidence. I feel just about like giving up on finding love...
surely if she liked you enough, she&#39;d make time to go out with you. People who do a lot are better at time management. Same goes for you. Organise a time by suggesting a date. Ask her when she&#39;s free. There is no way someone can be that busy. There&#39;s always time to see someone if you like them enough. If she says she can&#39;t even when you persist to organise a date, then she&#39;s either lying to you, or she just can&#39;t be bothered with men at the moment.

I wouldn&#39;t go drinking...that often distorts your personality and you want someone to like you for who you are rather than what you are when drunk. I&#39;m not very good at advice on confidence but just thinking positively helps I think. :think:

Just go to her house with a single rose and go, &#39;&#39;Come on, we&#39;re going Cinema right now&#39;&#39;. She&#39;ll reply with &#39;one rose, cinema, now?&#39;&#39;
You reply (with a wink) &#39;&#39;Yeah, right now. You get the rest of the dozen later&#39;&#39;.
She&#39;ll be baffled (and curious) and most likely won&#39;t be able to turn you down right there and then.. unless she&#39;s cold hearted or her parents are about (or she doesn&#39;t like you that much. But I think we ruled out this possibility) or thinks you&#39;re crazy.

Ah, the single rose. How many times have you gotten me a date? :D

Edit: This method is a Zach trademark. If I had a stamp, I&#39;d seal it right now. Keep is quiet. Sshh.

Edit: Doesn&#39;t have to be the cinema. Anywhere remotely exciting is good enough.

Hmm, i think i&#39;ll ask her out again today, assumming i have time :P

Originally posted by an&#045;kun@Jun 29 2005, 02:30 PM
I wouldn&#39;t go drinking...that often distorts your personality and you want someone to like you for who you are rather than what you are when drunk. I&#39;m not very good at advice on confidence but just thinking positively helps I think. :think:
I&#39;d disagree my man. there are stages when drinking, and the 1st stage is 100% confidence. I hate dancin if im sober because im self conscious. if i have a bit to drink then i feel stuff what everyone thinks im gonna have a good time. besides if ya both have a bit to drink then its easier to get an honest answer out of that person. Im not saying that drink is a magic solution that solves everything. just it can help.

Originally posted by Sephiroth@Jun 30 2005, 10:48 AM
I&#39;d disagree my man. there are stages when drinking, and the 1st stage is 100% confidence. I hate dancin if im sober because im self conscious. if i have a bit to drink then i feel stuff what everyone thinks im gonna have a good time. besides if ya both have a bit to drink then its easier to get an honest answer out of that person. Im not saying that drink is a magic solution that solves everything. just it can help.
yeah I know. If you need alcohol to dance then that&#39;s just image conscious. I&#39;m utterly rubbish at dancing (seriously) yet i do it anyway when I&#39;m psyched up enough. You just don&#39;t have the confidence without the drink. You shouldn&#39;t get too dependent on it. There are situations where you meet a hot girl and there&#39;s no alcohol in the area. You need the same confidence basically without the alcohol to move forward I reckon. But yeah zach&#39;s the "master" here so its probably better to ask him.

Drink does distort how a person looks sometimes... XD

yeah drink helps. I personally feel like I&#39;m cheating if I use drink to help, but that is my personal opinion. I guess I like doing things the hard way. :mellow:

I think that if you need to drink to like someone, then whats the point?

I&#39;ve always been too busy to look for a girlfriend... But I have had crushes before, though I always had to move before I summoned the courage to make anything of it. So, lately, my logic has been "What do I need a girlfriend for?" I really cannot make a sensible answer to that question, so I still don&#39;t need one. But, because of my logic, lots of people would swear I&#39;m gay, even my distant bro. But, I&#39;m cool still, so I don&#39;t worry about it.

Originally posted by mystery_editor@Jun 30 2005, 10:09 PM
I think that if you need to drink to like someone, then whats the point?
I don&#39;t think sephy meant it that way. Did you?

Actually now that I read what you said again.

Sephy:-

I&#39;d disagree my man. there are stages when drinking, and the 1st stage is 100% confidence

That&#39;s what I meant by distorting your personality. If you&#39;re not a confident person without drink then that means that you&#39;re personality changes a result of drinking because you become more confident. If you wouldn&#39;t dance normally without the influence of alcohol it usually means you&#39;re more introvert because you don&#39;t like being embarrassed. Dancing without drink is extroverted because usually you don&#39;t care about what people think of you. Those are personality traits. So drink alters it. That&#39;s what I meant dude. Sorry I should have made that clear earlier.

meh, thats ok. ugh, my heart races every time i talk to her. now i gotta go 2 whole weeks without seeing her...

*notices that no one cares what he wrote earlier...*

oh, sorry... anyhoo, i agree with that. I&#39;m like that, but i really want a g/f...

Yeah, I agree with that too. But it&#39;s just that I can&#39;t just ignore those feelings.
Anyway, I didn&#39;t get the chance to tell her. She heard it from a friend. I haven&#39;t met her since then, and I&#39;m really worried how she&#39;ll take it.

@don vercetti - you&#39;ll be okay&#33;

no i dont mean you need drink to like someone. just that it gives you the confidence you need to say or make the moves that you normally doubt. sometimes you&#39;d see someone and you wanna say something to her or make a move and in your head all you hear is "just do it stupid, what you got to lose" but your body just wont move. if you have that bit to drink then you think stuff it what have i got to lose and you just go with it.
Its true dont get dependant on it because it can turn you into an alcoholic.

okies sephy. Yeah I see now. I try not to doubt though, just plan what my opening line is and then make up the rest later. Got to get the adrenaline going though innit.

I&#39;ve a crush on almost every girl i meet&#33;&#33; I know it might sound bad but it really helps me have good chemistry with alot of people. Of course I never mix a crush with love. *looks to the sky*

heh, i used to do that, but then i thought to myself, "that could get you into alot of crap, my little friend..." so i stopped

Originally posted by DiamondSeraph@Jul 2 2005, 12:47 AM
I&#39;ve a crush on almost every girl i meet&#33;&#33; I know it might sound bad but it really helps me have good chemistry with alot of people. Of course I never mix a crush with love. *looks to the sky*
I think that&#39;s pretty good. Show&#39;s your not fussy at all unless every girl you "meet" seems to be just the pretty ones. I think a lot of girls might like that :think:

except when you start going out with one of them and you still do it

......ok.....now that&#39;s just weird. Or maybe greedy? <shrugs> I dunno what to say to that.

Tis simple, you hold yourself back and if you are really good then the person you are going out with you truly care about and so the others won&#39;t give you the same effect anymore (off topic: Man, affect and effect they confuse me soooooooooooo much. I never know if I am using them in the right context)

Originally posted by DiamondSeraph@Jul 3 2005, 10:52 PM
Tis simple, you hold yourself back and if you are really good then the person you are going out with you truly care about and so the others won&#39;t give you the same effect anymore (off topic: Man, affect and effect they confuse me soooooooooooo much. I never know if I am using them in the right context)
affect is the verb, effect is the noun.

a crucsh eh... I don&#39;t think I&#39;m ready for a new relationship (and proble never will be...too mutch hurt) so i give my oppition about passing girls but i don&#39;t sare or lust after them like my friends do...

see ya later

affect is the verb, effect is the noun.
THanks!! I never told you thanks. But after you told me this it helped me alot in life!!

i still have crushes.....

but no more infatuations. i learned. :)

if i have a crush on someone i just try and be friends and get to know them better, but hide the fact i have a crush on them. most of the time with the person i have a crush on, we get on really well and then turns out we both like each other then we got out. i not with anyone now, but i'm still good friends with all of my ex's. cept one but i didn't even know him well at all, and he asked if i wanted to go to the movies with him the next night out of the blue, i said i was too busy, but then he assumed somehow we were going out.......

That only works sometimes... Sometimes, the plan can backfire, or stop.

I have a question. Like, what about if you have a crush on someone and you want to get to know them better but you're too shy? What do you do?

Stop being shy. If you really can't then get a friend to speak to the guy on your behalf. If anything goes wrong you can just say your friend was taking the.. strudle.

Edit: Which it probably won't, of course.

lol talking to a strudle... hehe....

anyhow.... updade on me, but i dont actually think many, might care.

i kinda took more distance from previous crush, so now im used to being hurt and suffering alone in silence all the time, from when i wake up to when i fall asleep, if ever. meh! could be worse. but thats not all.

a few moths ago an other girl popped into my life and we started being friends. she was very funny and kind, and liked to mess up my hairdoo. i started liking her, then more and more. i used to walk her home and she would hug me goodbye. ppl said we made a nice couple, but both of us said we were just friends.

then randomly she says at a halloween party " yeah i really like that guy (not me) " and then they started dating and have been together since.

i guess my luck wasnt happy enugh with one broken heart, it had to rip its peices out of my chest and stick it down my throat. meh. im getting used to the dull throbbing pain too... whats sickening its they are both ( old and new crush ) different and so is the type of sensation, so i fell horrible in two diffent ways, not just a little more then i already was. but now I feel like numb and cold in the whole chest, but sometimes it just comes back and its a sharp fiery pair and a dull hunger pain mixed together. i dont actually show it kuz id just be a bother and a drag, not to mention i may worry some ppl.

meh. hope i havent bored you.

any advice?

^ no reason to be heart broken, more perceptive-er fish in the sea. (say that to yourself until it loses all meaning).



^^^[QUOTE=Zach]Stop being shy. QUOTE]

sums it up.

When i was young my mom always called me a shy kid in front of her friends. and therefore i was even more shy because of it. I was quiet through elementary and grade 8. Then one day rational behavior kicked in. I wasn't going to become easy to confront by people just by staying shy. The more comfortable people feel around you the more they can associate with you and vice versa.

I suppose I could post this here.

See, I'm having trouble finding the words to tell the girl I like that I like her. But the thing is, I don't even want to go out with her because she is moving in like a month and that is just too short of a relationship for me. Normally, I just wouldn't tell her, but my friends are going to tell her if I don't cuz they are mean like that. So like, how should I tell her I like her without asking her out?

(insert name in black)_____ I love you, I would love to have a relationship with you but I now know it is to late. Please if you ever need somebody to talk to call me I'm here for you. But I'm sorry we could never get to know each other better.

That would be something that I would probably say if I wasn't such a coward and if I was in that kind of a situation. just probably say something that would say you would be there for her.

I'd omit the 'I love you' part as an opener.

I'd say something like, 'Ok, I have to say this, I like you. What do you think?'' and leave it at that. That way she knows you like her and you won't have asked her out.

Unless you really do want go out with her. In which case, remove the 'what do you think?' part and, if she shows interest, mention a place to go on a date, ''Lets go to..''.

Disclaimer: I guarentee nothing.

Edit: I almost guarentee nothing.
Edit: Well, you'll get piece of mind. Thats something.
Edit: Asuke will get the girl.
Edit: Back to the disclaimer.

trust me to use the words i love you is a must not especially if your not even going out with the girl. its just a case of your experiencing new feelings that you've never felt before. and so because the feeling is so overwhelming you think its love. when i split with 1 of my ex's it made me extremely depressed. i became physically ill and i was prescribed medication. but to this day im still a virgin in saying the words I love you. It may sound harsh but I feel that when it hits me i'll know that i want to say it. at this moment in time i still think its not love just a new feeling.

"I love you" is too strong of a phrase for me, cuz I don't really know her enough to actually love her. But I'll take some of those things into consideration.

Right. You have to know how the person you have a crush on works which is why you have to get to know them better first and then manipulate them to think that they'd be so much better off if you were always around and then.. play hard to get. They'll go crazy for you and ask YOU out. Works like a charm.
I did all that.... =( Failed cause it seems that she wanted another guy...

I liked her since beginning of school this year... at first i thought she was cute... But then i told one of her frends/my friend that i liked her... They then helped me ask her out. I was really shaking cause before all this... I was some what really anti-social. I was foreign to this feeling. WHen i asked her out, She said she would think about it. From my knwoledge/results from other guys It wasnt a godo thing =(. The day after that she said no. Literally i had my head hurt. Every breath i took was like a stab in the heart... But i didnt want to give up. I found out more about her and i found out i really did like her. I didnt jsut think she was cute. I liked her in every way for what she was. A couple of weeks later i found out she was taken. She still knows i like her. But i jsut had a talk from one of her friends saying that she doesnt want to be bothered by me anymore... Im afraid to see her angry. I'd rather she be happy though. Even if it aint with me...

That happened to me, I just told her, and she said she felt the same way

And the wholel ex thing, who cares?

How long ago did I write that post? Man, I was the don back in the day.

Sorry, violent_newbie. Look on the bright side, you got some experience in asking a girl out. It hurts now, but its cool. Its a shame you're really into her now, especially since she's being a bit mean by restricting contact.

Screw her, if she's going to be evil like that, then she really isn't worth it.

Edit: Oh, some other guy. Thats where it all went wrong. She was after someone else when you decided to act in, isn't it? Thats a big no.

Life lesson taught.

As always, there will always be someone better around the corner. Just keep cool.

That happened to me, I just told her, and she said she felt the same way

And the wholel ex thing, who cares?

man i swear you best not be on about me

you have a crush... you dont know if that "person" feels the same way...<< i hate it when that happenes... what do you do?

AND! your crush's Ex.. is starting to crush on YOUR crush again :angry: ... what do you do?
On the first question, I'm not gonna do anything. I'm just gonna live my life the way I live it.

2nd question: If he likes her, then whatever. Why am I going to fight some stupid guy anyways?

wow....this thread brings back memorys....

wow....this thread brings back memorys....
yea

i think the girl i was talking about on this thread is the girl im talking about on my how to get over a girl thread....and i posted about her like 1 year ago...

i think the girl i was talking about on this thread is the girl im talking about on my how to get over a girl thread....and i posted about her like 1 year ago...
LOL

i mean im totaly serious.....wait...mabye it was a different person with me still trying to get my mind off of the person i like now

.

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On crushes I really can't say much because I'm only twelve and most people in middle school are ... idiots, biggots or just plain freaky!x_x
I'm one of those freaky ones!!!! YAY!!!

In my middle school, all the boys are either disgusting or just plain mean. I so hate them! And anyways, I don't really care much about these kinda stuff even though I've had 3 or more in my almost 12 years. BOYS ARE SO FREAKIN' STUPID, DUMB, DISGUSTING, IMMATURE, AND RETARDED!!!! I mean, boys in my school. I don't even know why I had a crush on those guys. UGH!

Freaky people rock my sox!! hey wait a sec....I'm freaky people....soo....therefore....I roc my own sox.
Is it possible to roc ones' sox?

I'm one of those freaky ones!!!! YAY!!!

In my middle school, all the boys are either disgusting or just plain mean. I so hate them! And anyways, I don't really care much about these kinda stuff even though I've had 3 or more in my almost 12 years. BOYS ARE SO FREAKIN' STUPID, DUMB, DISGUSTING, IMMATURE, AND RETARDED!!!! I mean, boys in my school. I don't even know why I had a crush on those guys. UGH!

Hey boys are not stupid, dumb or retarded. so sure we are disgusting and immature so what.

No, KL Fan is merely stating that the boys in her middle school...
Now on topic...
I've only had 2 crushes...one when I was in grade 4 and the other one is in the present time, I've found out that she likes my friend, I've gotten over her...for the most part

Everyone should mouth the words "Olive juice" to their crushes (hehehe)

Whoah someone actually unearthed this thread and revived it....

i think i may have to give diamond seraph a nickname for reviving old topics. not even with anything relevant either. rdt seraph sounds good enough for me.

Reviving Dead Topic

No sense of letting them go to waste, or giving people reason to make stupider threads.

true true

Olive Juice!

sumone told me it was 'elephant juice'
same difference anyway, haha.

How does saying olive juice do anything to your crush?

Try mouthing (not saying "mouthing") "olive juice" in the mirror.

Ok, now I see, but what if they don't understand it.

then dont do it a second time

most of the time, they will understand it cuz it looks really like it.

that's true

how is it going crushes? im doing pretty good. after being hurt for a long time, ive finally come to terms with my feelings and started to fight the feelings that i coudnt work with. <--- thats the difficult part. as a meager consolation, i know it was true love, not a silly infatuation.

although you might think that i could have a chance with the one that im trying to distance myself from, she very recently stated her homosexual tendency. i respect her immencely for that. i know many people wouldn have gone about that issue in such an outspoken manner (with all that f**king stupid discriminative talk about homosexuality and all that dumb sh*t). her rather public announcement was only a homage to her strenght of caracter, boldness and well being(my chest just twinged there *wince*)
(its clear she feels good with herself.(what's the saying?? i only know it in french!!! *elle est bien dans sa peau*)she is at ease with herself? eek sorry i dont have a proper translation).

anyway, although it is a shock, it only proves to myself that i should banish my feelings for her. (that is most difficult when shes in your classes.) anyhow life is looking up ^^. i feel better and im certain that i should get on with my life. its really hard but im shure i can pull it off. its just not fun when you wake up to a heartache and go to sleep the same way. im trying everything i can think of to get her out of my mind. distractions, repeating the same sentence to empty my head, lots of exercise (distraction really), controlling of feelings, repressing my feelings, deleting all my songs that are related to love or remind me of her, ect ect ect. right now its getting easyer so yeah, doing fine yall! hope that peoples of ichigo arnt as unlycky as i was for relationships. goodbye! *waves*

peace:)

As for right now, I don't know why, but I have crushes on two guyz. One has a girlfriend and one is looking for one. Both are my KINDA my friends, and I don't wanna break that small friendship and I don't even know if they like me or not so I don't plan on actually telling them the truth cuz I'm bound to get over them anywayz.........hopefully.

lol, i know what u feel, i got a crush too. she is beatyful, in spirit and in body, :rolleyes: but every time i speak to her or i see her, i feel like my heart is being torn apart because i know ill never be good enough, nice enough or good lookin enough for er. but i am content that she does not think too lowly of me, and i am very good at hyding my emotions, so i dont look stupid when im near her like in some movies or stuff. (u know the guy who has the crush tries to speak to the girl and he looks like an idiot when trying to say something like hello...)

well cheers

:( :unsure:

thats your skillz lol.........

i just act normal i guess. .. with tiny convulsions here and there (not perverted ones)....

if u've read wat this said earlier then im sry 4 saying such things, cuz my bro is such a wanna-be lesbian so he typed that up in here using my acc.

is it normal for a crush to last more than a year?

kuz ive had my crush for over a year... im startin to think this is more that a crush. the girl i have a crush (or watever it is) has a boyfriend. contrairyly to what you might think, im not jealous. im happy. no im really happy because she is happy with her boyfriend. if she is happy, thats all that matters.

ya.....

and i like ur picture.....

its from Ruruouni Kenshin right? the Sirijo guy?

@Jhnboyman - XD. *laghs* have you even read my last posts? i kinda got those questions and problems answered and worked out :) . i dont know mabe i missed stuff but those posts were posted a looong time ago, and lots happened since then. so, heres what i said very recently -

im doing pretty good. after being hurt for a long time, ive finally come to terms with my feelings and started to fight the feelings that i coudnt work with. <--- thats the difficult part. as a meager consolation, i know it was true love, not a silly infatuation.

although you might think that i could have a chance with the one that im trying to distance myself from, she very recently stated her homosexual tendency. i respect her immencely for that. i know many people wouldn have gone about that issue in such an outspoken manner (with all that f**king stupid discriminative talk about homosexuality and all that dumb sh*t). her rather public announcement was only a homage to her strenght of caracter, boldness and well being(my chest just twinged there *wince*)
(its clear she feels good with herself.(what's the saying?? i only know it in french!!! *elle est bien dans sa peau*)she is at ease with herself? eek sorry i dont have a proper translation).

anyway, although it is a shock, it only proves to myself that i should banish my feelings for her. (that is most difficult when shes in your classes.) anyhow life is looking up ^^. i feel better and im certain that i should get on with my life. its really hard but im shure i can pull it off. its just not fun when you wake up to a heartache and go to sleep the same way. im trying everything i can think of to get her out of my mind. distractions, repeating the same sentence to empty my head, lots of exercise (distraction really), controlling of feelings, repressing my feelings, deleting all my songs that are related to love or remind me of her, ect ect ect. right now its getting easyer so yeah, doing fine yall! hope that peoples of ichigo arnt as unlycky as i was for relationships. goodbye! *waves* -

*tenken no soujirou*. one of my favorite characters in Rurounin Kenshin!

alright! so have a good one yall!

arrgh.... my friend asked both my crushes if they liked me. of course they both said no, but i dont care about that. now i dont really like guy

that sucks. you saying you dont' like guys or you dont' like those two guys?

oh. makes sense. i meant both. thanks for pointing out my mistake

Had a crush on some boy at my pervious school before and I told him that I had feelings for him. But he said he only likes me as a friend. :(

And now I don't have anyone in mind and yes I hate it when I don't know how that person feels towards you.

One of the guys I liked before, I like again now, only I think it's starting to develop. No idea why, seriously. Plus, I don't even want to like him, for gosh's sake.

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@bombom - at least you told him. That in itself takes guts that girls dont' usually have.

@deadly love - girls usually seem to like guys they can't have...:huh:

@little arrow - wait till your body has matured and you'll probably get some boys. Don't know how old you are, but you're probably too young to worry about dying alone. What the heck is BFFL? beef fillet?

BFFL is a sad excuse of the larger, and easier to understand, phrase Best Friends For Life.

:cry: My crushes NEVER like me back! ever and to make it worse my latest crush likes my BFFL and she likes a guy who likes me! HA! isn't that just hilarious... I hate love, I'll probably end up living in a big house with a bunch of birds!!!!!!!!!!:cry:
Ey! Same here! None of my crushes ever like me back. Or at least, I hope not. That would just be plain creepy. Big house w/ a bunch of birds. :lol: You actually really think that's how alone you're gonna be?



@deadly love - girls usually seem to like guys they can't have...:huh:
Yep. I just hope this one guy that I like now doesn't like me back. 'Cause he keeps saying hi to me. It's real creepy.

If you have a crush on him, why would it be creepy if he likes you back. If you think its creepy then why do you like him

If you have a crush on him, why would it be creepy if he likes you back. If you think its creepy then why do you like him
Like I said before, I have no idea why I like him. And I don't even want to like him. I just do. And I'm just that kind of girl. Hate insults, don't really like compliments either. And even if I do get crushes, that doesn't really change anything except for the fact that I like him. And deep inside, I still really think that some time or other (if I ever do get in a relationship), the guy's gonna dump me or hurt me in some way, which makes me a guy hater (only the jerks though). And even if I've known him for 3 years, I still really don't know him enough to tell if that's actually ever gonna happen (if it ever becomes us).

=/

well part of a relationship or a confession is whether you're willing to trust the person asking you or whether they can trust you. the other part is wondering if it's worth gambling your current relationship. current crush? Ofcourse my wifey or maybe jessica alba >>

Ask me what? And I'm a trustable person, and if he thinks otherwise, that's his problem, not mine's, cuz seriously I can be trusted with secrets and I'd never cheat on a guy. The only thing the guy I ever end up with can't and shouldn't trust is my fist, cuz most guys know what's gonna freakin' happen to them if they even think about cheating on me. I don't even have a relationship with him, not even as a friend. We like keeping our distance from each other. Well, either that or we just like hanging out with our friends better or we can't stand each other.

er.. you seem very passionate about your manslaying. It kind of seems to me like you're making an excuse about something. Either that or your venting about something close to the subject. If the first thing you think about when someone cheats on you is hitting them in the face it kind of makes you wonder if you have an alternative. You really don't know why you like him? well... look at his good qualities then throw those out the window and think why you'd still like him regardless XD
most likely it isn't that you guys can't stand eachother you kind of need some closure on this since it seems to be eating away at you...

Ummm.... what's eating away on me? And actually, the first thing that would probably come to my mind when I find out my boyfriend (if I ever get one) cheats would be "Did I do something wrong? Did I do something to drive him away or something? Am I that uninteresting so that he could just another girl to replace me?" Then after that, comes the punching him in the face part. Like I said beofre, I've only known this guy 3 years but I still don't know him that much and so I only think of two good qualities. Good looks and he's KINDA smart. If he's ugly AND dumb, then I'm pretty sure I won't like him. I KINDA look for intelligence in guys too.

Good looks and he's KINDA smart

hmm.. judging from that your still in you teen years or later.. hahaha.. i'll tell you it's the personality that would win in the long run.. beauty fades, people sometimes forget.. hahaha.. good luck

:cry: My crushes NEVER like me back! ever and to make it worse my latest crush likes my BFFL and she likes a guy who likes me! HA! isn't that just hilarious... I hate love, I'll probably end up living in a big house with a bunch of birds!!!!!!!!!!:cry:

That never really happened to me. But are you really sure that your crush likes your bestfriend? If you said no, then you may have a chance that he likes you too!
But if you said yes...Well, it'll be a very hard thing to do but you just need to accept it. There maybe someone out there just waiting for you! (^-^)

hmm.. judging from that your still in you teen years or later.. hahaha.. i'll tell you it's the personality that would win in the long run.. beauty fades, people sometimes forget.. hahaha.. good luck
i no, but like I said, I don't know him that much. Oh yeah and I forgot these two: nice (although last yr and the yr b4 that, he was always teasing me and calling me "Sissy" [it's a long story]) and if i let him borrow money, usually by the next day, he pays me back.

I have no idea if he likes me or not, but my friends always say that he keeps saying "hi" to me and that he looks at me sometimes, and once when he was behind me, he freakin' touched my backpack. I prefer thinking that he likes my bestfriend though cuz he always tells my bestfriend to say hi to me from him and I'm always around my bestfriend when he looks at me. As for the backpack thing, I'm pretty sure it was just an accident.

i no, but like I said, I don't know him that much. Oh yeah and I forgot these two: nice (although last yr and the yr b4 that, he was always teasing me and calling me "Sissy" [it's a long story]) and if i let him borrow money, usually by the next day, he pays me back.

I have no idea if he likes me or not, but my friends always say that he keeps saying "hi" to me and that he looks at me sometimes, and once when he was behind me, he freakin' touched my backpack. I prefer thinking that he likes my bestfriend though cuz he always tells my bestfriend to say hi to me from him and I'm always around my bestfriend when he looks at me. As for the backpack thing, I'm pretty sure it was just an accident.


i'll make the long story short... basically us guys are not that hard to figure out.. one thing for sure(ok, not always but a high percentage) when a guy likes someone he just can't stop stare at the girl... hahaha! and sometimes we have high pride so doing those romatic stuff you girls are sissy stuff for us guys so instead we just prank(mostly to get attention), call it insensitive if you want but SOMETIMES that how we show we care.. ahahahah..

i no, but like I said, I don't know him that much. Oh yeah and I forgot these two: nice (although last yr and the yr b4 that, he was always teasing me and calling me "Sissy" [it's a long story]) and if i let him borrow money, usually by the next day, he pays me back.

I have no idea if he likes me or not, but my friends always say that he keeps saying "hi" to me and that he looks at me sometimes, and once when he was behind me, he freakin' touched my backpack. I prefer thinking that he likes my bestfriend though cuz he always tells my bestfriend to say hi to me from him and I'm always around my bestfriend when he looks at me. As for the backpack thing, I'm pretty sure it was just an accident.

He likes you.

^ my professional opinion

i'll make the long story short... basically us guys are not that hard to figure out.. one thing for sure(ok, not always but a high percentage) when a guy likes someone he just can't stop stare at the girl... hahaha! and sometimes we have high pride so doing those romatic stuff you girls are sissy stuff for us guys so instead we just prank(mostly to get attention), call it insensitive if you want but SOMETIMES that how we show we care.. ahahahah..
oh come on p-chan
ur a Filipino too and a guy at that
u shud no the tradition (although those kinda stuff r fine by me, but still)
and neways this one guy that i like (hes Flip too)
he's the kind of guy that goes for looks
or both but mostly, far as im concerned, looks
and seriously, im not that pretty........... i think.......


He likes you.

^ my professional opinion
that's exactly what my friends say, but i'm not sure if i shud blv them or not

This reminds me of an anime. The girl refuses to accept anything good that comes her way and therefore leads a depressed life full of anxiousness. She's the type who wouldn't accept the prize if she won the lottery. You're that girl. It's your choice if you want to keep running away from boys. Telling you what to do isn't really going to make a difference, so I'm going to leave your choice up to you. Only you can change your path.

In the anime, the girl changed her own path, but I don't think you're the type to.

Hey, I'm young. I'm barely gonna be a teenager in 3 months. I'm not gonna run away from guys all my life. And I'm totally not gonna run away from guys that like me for who I am, it's just from those jerks that only go for looks.

oops, yeah you sound a lot older for some reason. Didn't realise your age sorry. I guess you're right, though you'll probably have to look for older guys to find someone that doesn't only go for looks.

Well, there are a couple of guys in my school that are my age that are my friends that go for personality, but I have no idea why, they're still scared of me. How old do I sound?

I thought around 15 or something. Could be scared because you're a tom-boy?

Oh. I'm not that much of a tomboy. I just like anime, videogames, and that kinda stuff. And I beat up guys.

:lol: maybe...just maybe...the last thing you said is the reason.

lol what do you mean maybe? a girl liking anime and videogames isn't scary.

i think he ment the bit about beating up guys

lol, i think tomboy girls are cool. not to mention one who likes anime and videa games! hard to find one thats single

i know. i meant that that's the only part that's scary, not me liking anime and videogames.

:lol: maybe...just maybe...the last thing you said is the reason.

do I really have to make it so clear to you all the time?

i got what you said
sheesh
im not THAT stupid

sorry i didnt' read the post after pft's post.

Kk so now that we're wrapping up this one how about we move onto another crush situation ._.
Dreams that do come true can be as unsettling as those that don't. So be careful ._.

Okay now that I didn't get ::points at last line::

When we get our wishes we might regret them as much as if we hadn't gotten them.

Oh. Now I get it.

Man. I can't believe I still like my crush. Now, I actually really really think that he does like me. GROSS :sick:!

;94549']I had a crush, and I went after him.
Turns out he liked me too! XD We've been going out for a couple of months now.


good for you! :lol: that happened to me too! now we've been going out for about a year and a half. AND we got an apartment together! yay! ^.^

Bwuahah :sweat: I have like 15 Crushes! Lol, weird--not really!

they all based around looks?

Eh, not much-- I'm not the type to just judge by the look of people.

Bwuahah :sweat: I have like 15 Crushes! Lol, weird--not really!
Wow... 15 crushes? They like, people you actually know in the flesh or are some celebs or something?

-sigh- Me, right now, no crushes. Yay! It's somewhat creepy, but whatever. First major crush in US was a jerk, followed by a guy I don't even really know, then my closest guy friend that one of my best friends love. I felt so guilty about that that I just totally got over guys... at least for now.

*sigh*i got my first actual crush, not just the whole "omg he is soooo hot" thing.
but it kinda sucks because i'm not that sure if he knows or not. i gave him a note, being the scardy cat that i am, and for like a wek he didn't talk to me, then he asked if it was from me or from my friend who had dated him and asked him out again like the day before. but now for some strange reason he's being all emo and angry with everyone. God i hate itx_x.....i talk to much:think:.....

I don't like crushes because I can never tell if they're real or not until their talked out. And they are usually NEVER talked out ._.

Most crushes that have I don't want to have, but you can't help it right? As long as I'm loyal to my commitments, I can move on though.

I don't like crushes because I can never tell if they're real or not until their talked out. And they are usually NEVER talked out ._.

Most crushes that have I don't want to have, but you can't help it right? As long as I'm loyal to my commitments, I can move on though.

This is true- the thing is, a crush on its own isnt anything; but when you actually come out with it, it makes it a reality. And the thing is, you may think you like someone, tell them, and then realise its not actually a crush.

lol- i think the most of us, given the choice, would rather not have 80% of our crushes. like i currently have one on a close friend, and would give anything not to feel the way i do, but what can you do? i managed to message them about it yesterday, but regret doing it now because it may make things weird and i wouldnt compromise a friendship for anything

*shuts up*

yeaaaa i have a crush sorta on a friend but if i tell her i feel like il ruin our relationship as friends XD damn and i got a present for her too what to do!!

yeaaaa i have a crush sorta on a friend but if i tell her i feel like il ruin our relationship as friends XD damn and i got a present for her too what to do!!

She's your friend... <_< It's actually easier to give them the present because (duh!) you two are friends. Giving it to someone who isn't exactly your friend, however, is a lot more complicated...

Ah yes. For me, it's that damn jerk again. My friends keep saying it's first love for me and all that stuff, but there is no way that I'm going to even think that way. (I had a dream that I died of Scarlet Fever, became a wandering ghost, and haunted the school. Blah blah blah. Then, it was my class with him. Teacher asked if anyone knew where I was. He shouted out I was dead like it was just whatever. I went into my friend's body, shouted at him, started breaking down and crying, and then confessed undying love for him. EWWW!!!!)