Where could i get some decent soundfonts and can anyone direct me to a site that will help me install these soundfonts into my soundcard.

I've posted links a bunch of decent soundfonts packs and sites here (http://www.vgmusic.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=7613). As for using them, you need a Sound Blaster card (AWE or newer, with a few exception), a sequencer that support Vstis/Dxis, or enough processing power to run this neat software emulator (http://www.saunalahti.fi/kru99/About_SynthFont.htm).