When I say Friendship I mean a TRUE friendship. Not just someone you hang out with or talk to.

I would like you to tell me the definition of friendship. Iwant to see what friends I truly have because I think I don't/never had any friends. I need help in this department, please. Tell me, what is a true friend?

I think a treu friend isn't easy to find. He/She will say the truth, even when sometimes that's not allways the nicest thing, but a treu friend will only do this to help you.

A treu friend is someone you can tell you deepest feelings and secrets, and he will keep that between you two.

A treu friend is someone is someone who respects you, and you respect him/her, even thouht you don't allways have the same opinions.

A treu friend is someone wh doesn't act like an enemy when you have a crush on the both girl ( Yes, that happened to me and a friend, and no, we were no enemies). And when one of them gets the girl, the other will be happy for him.

You'll have your ups and downs even with a treu friend, but in the end, the ups are 1000 times more worthy as the downs

(and that's all I could come up with XD)

I don't believe in true friends. - By your definition

I want to see what friends I truly have because I think I don't/never had any friends.


erm, what friends will you truly have if you don't/never had any friends? i'm not being sarcastic here but that sentence doesn't make sense, so i hope you don't take it as an offence.

yeah, its good to have true friends, but you can live without them, normal friends are just as good as true friends. You don't need to worry about you and your best mate not spending enough time together and you have more freedom doing things you like (that your true friend dislikes). If you have any problems, its still down to you to solve it, not your friends.

the qualities of a true friend are pretty much the same for anyone else, be there when you need him, for better or worse (i'll just leave the rest for you, you should decide what you want in your true friend).

no, she said she doesnt think she has any friends. true friends, that is.

erm, what friends will you truly have if you don't/never had any friends? i'm not being sarcastic here but that sentence doesn't make sense, so i hope you don't take it as an offence.
I meant hich of my "friends" are true friends.

Edit: Muffin Master keeps saying what I am going to say before me!:heh: But yes, he is correct.

lol

i know you better than you know yourself, sept!

Yes! XD You do! Bit we are getting off topic.

Do you really need a true friend?

Yes....Unfortunately....yes.

of course you need a true friend. you need someone to count on and trust some secrets that you cant tell your family.

But I wouldn't trust anyone with my secrets. Who knows whose side their working on...

A true friend is someone who picks you up when you fall, and trusts you to pick them up when they fall.

thats why you need a friend you know you can trust.

And not only keep your secret, but also do what is right for you even if you dont want them to.

Eh... well, I don't really trust anyone. I always think... in the future, that "true" friend got a better deal, and can always use whatever you said against you... later on... you never know.

That is kinda sad but if you think they will leave you then it isn't really complete trust.

I don't think it is sad. I prefer the term reality. Even if they were really nice and all that... if they were *that* nice to get my full trust, I'd think they were acting, to get information or something.

Maybe you are just paranoid....J/K

Ah... believe it or not... you are not the first one to say that.

I believe it but once again....I'm off topic and now...so are you....

Erm... well, yes. Ah... I guess I shouldn't be here at all, seeing as I don't really have any advice, except the opposite of what you're looking for...

I really think that you need to find out define who you consider a "true" friend yourself, you can't just have someone else say, yes that person is one of your friends because they are different people from you.
On an edited side note, I don't think that you can completely trust anyone, people and circumstances change.

I think you guys think too pessimistically. A true friend is someone you know (duh!) who you can trust. They also trust you and you basically look out for each other. They don't backstab you. They know you and you them well.

Wait,, i forgot something,, I think there isn't a real definition of a treu friend. It's different for every person... But I think 'THE' true friend is just a mythical fairytail. It's just not humanlike to trust someone 100%... Unfortunally :(

that's just your opinion though. There are some people who do trust others...that's why people tell secrets to each other which wouldn't be secret if they got told to someone else. Shopkeepers trust people will pay for what they sell. I admit this is a different sort of trust. Trusting someone 100% is possible though.

Erm... well, yes. Ah... I guess I shouldn't be here at all, seeing as I don't really have any advice, except the opposite of what you're looking for...

seriously, septermagic is asking for advice, and based on all your post in this thread, all you do is rant about how you don't trust true friends and shit. You made it clear that you don't believe in true friend in your first post, so there isn't a point really to keep posting after that first post.

Back to the topic, i remember reading something off a newspaper about 2 best friends sharing kidneys, which means true friend does exist? true friend can be identified if you spend enough time with your normal friends and look for the odd one out, that's what i think. But normal friends are good enough for me :) .

I believe true friendship, is something that can never truely be explained to its most. It's a field of mystery, and no one can ever know when they might stumble across it's path. I can say that it's a very rare thing, however not impossible to find. I think that true friendship consists of; love, honestly, loyalty, and devotion. It's when you know that that one single person standing beside you, will never abandon you no matter what situation. Life or death. Serious, or not. Theres a large majority of frienships that never last out there, which is sad. Whatever reason it may be - it just gives away the fact that it's not true. A true friend would never turn their back on you. A true friend would do everything in their power to please you, and hope that you'll return that respect to them as they do you.
It's true when they say that we hurt the ones we love; because we always know that no matter how mad we can allow ourselves to be at them, they'll still love us no matter what. You know they'll always be there for you in the end. That after a tough day's work, and arguements, you'll still have someone to confide in at the end of the day.

-Hart

"seriously, septermagic is asking for advice, and based on all your post in this thread, all you do is rant about how you don't trust true friends and shit."

I know, your post was redundant. You just agreed to what I already said about myself. And... wow, one or two sentences each post is *such* a rant. Bad me.

And I did give advice, just not the kind he's looking for. My advice was that I didn't think there were anything as true friends, so I doubt any of his are right now. Sorry if it wasn't obvious enough for you.

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just not the kind he's looking for. My advice was that I didn't think there were anything as true friends, so I doubt any of his are right now.

Are you calling septy a guy?! :eyebrow:

When I say Friendship I mean a TRUE friendship. Not just someone you hang out with or talk to.

I would like you to tell me the definition of friendship. Iwant to see what friends I truly have because I think I don't/never had any friends. I need help in this department, please. Tell me, what is a true friend?

Think about this; You get slammed into jail.

A good friend will bail you out.

However, a true friend will sit next to you on the bench saying "Damn, we fucked up."

A True friend can be made depending on your connections to your friend and how your friend thinks of you. First impression counts the most, since many people will gain that knowledge about you and stay with it stubbornly, even if you change yourself to them it will take a long time before they adjust to this new you. Everyone can have friends, but some people can only be aquaintances. You must learn to know who is your aquaintance, your friend, your good friend, or a true friend. There is no such thing as one true friend, or one best friend.

However remember that everytime you fall, your friends can be used as your cushions. Note, however that in time, your cushions will wear out if you fall too much. Priority of yourself comes first. Your friends cannot always be with you forever. You must learn independance and learn to be strong in all situations before making friends.

Quite right Hiei

I think of my best friend as my own brother. We look and act alike.
I'm like Ed and hes like Al, I'm hot headed, mean and will kick your a$$.
Hes gentle, nice and caring. So its equals out

"Are you calling septy a guy?! "

*cough* Erm... no... I meant she. O.o

lol, Thanks Muffin

Think about this; You get slammed into jail.

A good friend will bail you out.

However, a true friend will sit next to you on the bench saying "Damn, we fucked up."
Tha was my signature. XD

that was? I got that quote from a small image from a quiz site.

My true friend moved away...

I'm sorry.