I like this girl you see. But i'm to shy to say anything and i was wondering if there is any advice to help me out here.

the shy thing is hard to get past of. but you have to find a situation where you can just casually talk to her and say a few things;it needs to be "coincidental", then you build from there and you'll have things to talk about. don't walk up to meet her and make it look weird and desperate though. my 2 cents, good luck.

or you can send her a mixtape of lil' jon and the east side boys. it might be a tad offensive though :)

I really dont know why i'm so shy though. I never had a problem talking to girls. But now i'm sort afraid.Sometimes people put me on the spot to talk with girls and i just become a mute.

happens with alot of people as well as me, if they put you on the spot and expect you to whip out a joke they obviously haven't been put in that situation before.

i just dont know i freeze up but if i'm with my friends i can joke around and be a clone. Then a girl comes nothing.

force yourself to have confidence. then it'll come more naturally aftertime

Easier said then done. By the way i wont be on for a while but please keep posting.

Well what is the worst that couuld happen if you do ask her out? She says 'no', correct? If you don't ask her out you don't get the date anyway. You just get stuck wondering what-if for the rest of your life. *cough*Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul *cough*

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well unless you don't want to meet the girl then there's no way around it, plus afterall she is still human(like your friends) so there's no reasoning behind getting so tense.

i shud be studying for a midterm but sitting around on campus is too distracting lol.

you could always prepare for the worst, expect to get knocked back then if it happens its not that much of a dissapointment & if it doesnt happen then its a happy bonus, yes I'm rather cynical & view the world as a series of bad things to happen but at least I'm never let down by expectations

make her your friend first even if you don't want her to just be your friend. that way you'll know more about her/ or know more about what you dislike about her. Usually after you become friends, signals will be given off, and then you can choose to go out or watever. Thus eliminating the right off the bat denial. When people walk up to me and say i wanna go out with you cuz i like you and i don't know a thing about you, i'm probably gonna say get lost PUNK! lol well maybe not like that, but because it's so sudden a person won't know how to react.

Sorry to sound like someone who observes animals but this is the only way i know how to give advice.

^all the above + Don't try to be someone else; be only yourself. If you being shy is normal, then stay shy (to an extent... I mean, you do need to talk to her in order to firgure out how to move forward in this issue). It may be a bit detramental to the issue, it's better than leading the woman on that you are someone your not, and trust me, you don't want to lead a woman onto somthing that isn't true, it can come back to burn you badly.

intresting point in making her my freind first to know her.I mean it would really be nice to know something about her other then her name.

we kind of had a similar thread....
crushes (http://forums.ichigos.com/showthread.php?p=137234#post137234)

but yeah... im kinda like you... i like this girl.. although im scared shitless to do anything... weird thing is i have no problem talking to girls... i have heaps of female friends.. i actually get along better with girls than with guys O_O"
anywayz... i eventually told her.. and things went well =D
so just remember... if you dont say anything, then nothing will happen
if you say somthing then either nothing will happen OR somthng will happen ^_~

Maybe i should just go up to her. She says no she says no. Life goes on.

^ it's up to you, but don't think about whether she says no. keep ya head up

plan --> implement --> execute --> victory --> hyuu hyuu :)

yeah... just tell her... there are no losses here... only gains!
so only a good outcome can come out...

Well i told her and she was flattered but she already had a boyfriend.

Ah, well it's a good thing you told her anyway. At least you don't need to continue worrying about it. Good on you PM! You're shy but you got guts.

Thanks.I nearly has a heart attack telling her.

Oh, im very sorry. But good try though.

man I know what youre going through, its tough...
i once told the perfect girl that i love(d) her, and she said it was to early after her last boyfriend and so on, and so on... I was totally crushed, like a bug, i nearly killed myself, i was so in love... oh the memories, the two of us sitting really close on a bench outside of school having a cigarette... god damn i still love her and two years have past...

what im trying to say is: 1 life can be cruel.
2 if you dont try surely nothing will happen
3 if you get rejekted you get inspiration for art
4 life goes on but it leaves marks

im very sorry

The wost experiance that I've had is a "Yes, but I have no time. Which is why I broke up with my previous boyfriend."
After about a year, I gave up. But her ex moved right on. Thats my rant there.

Maybe it's yur hormones acting up?

The only thing a boy is suppose to do is "be himself". It's plain dumb if he keeps on acting and pretending somebody he's not because surely there is one day the girl is gonna find out. And it'll be difficult for him to turn back because.. maybe the girl can't accept him as him being his original style, i guess...

Don't be heartbroken if somebody doesn't accept u for who u r.. Just change your target and find somebody else. There is millions of ppl in this world and there'll be someone who will accept u for who u r.

The only thing a boy is suppose to do is "be himself". It's plain dumb if he keeps on acting and pretending somebody he's not because surely there is one day the girl is gonna find out. And it'll be difficult for him to turn back because.. maybe the girl can't accept him as him being his original style, i guess...

Don't be heartbroken if somebody doesn't accept u for who u r.. Just change your target and find somebody else. There is millions of ppl in this world and there'll be someone who will accept u for who u r.

I agree:P

Don't be heartbroken if somebody doesn't accept u for who u r.. Just change your target and find somebody else. There is millions of ppl in this world and there'll be someone who will accept u for who u r.

It's pretty hard to change the "target" when he/she is one of the hottest people you'll see in your life-time.

Nah, man. There's always someone hotter just around the corner. Phew, its a good life.

Its someone who you really feel for thats hard to forget.