I'm not sure if this thread is even suppose to go here but oh well.

if friends dont appreciate you, they're not really friends, now are they?

if friends dont appreciate you, they're not really friends, now are they?
Well not really. But what would you consider them as if you still like them and would do anything so that you'll still be close even though they don't care much about you?

then thats just being stupid.

How can you like someone who doesnt even appreciate you being...you?

then thats just being stupid.

How can you like someone who doesnt even appreciate you being...you?
THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT! I mean they don't care about me. Not liking me for who I am. They don't even care about that. At least I don't think so.

then why must you insist on being friends with them?

Didn't I already say something about that? Because I like them and they're my only friends if I can call them that.

mabye she wants them to care about her? ...talk to thme about it...

mabye she wants them to care about her? ...talk to thme about it...
I wish they will.

When I say something, most of the time it's in 1 ear and out the other. I wish they'd actually listen to what I have to say.

is this person ur best friend?

in my view yes in hers i hav no idea

im pretty sure she just doesnt realize what shes doing or how u feel about it...have u talked to her about it?

im pretty sure she just doesnt realize what shes doing or how u feel about it...have u talked to her about it?
No.

see how she feels about it...and if u think shes lying or..shes she says she doesnt care we'll think of wat to do l8r....

see how she feels about it...and if u think shes lying or..shes she says she doesnt care we'll think of wat to do l8r....
Fine, I'll ask her when she goes on again or if she doesnt I'll ask her tomorrow.

ok

Seeing people happy is enough appreciation for me. Though a simple thanks would subdue my underlying wraith.

Then again, different people have different levels...

And different perspectives. D:

Seeing people happy is enough appreciation for me. Though a simple thanks would subdue my underlying wraith.

Then again, different people have different levels...

And different perspectives. D:
Same thing for me. As long as they're happy, I'm happy.

but, if they don't care about you and they don't listen when you speak, then they are not a really good friend at all.

Why would anyone do that when your trying to make them happy?


Thats completely assinine, even to my standards.

but, if they don't care about you and they don't listen when you speak, then they are not a really good friend at all.
I know that. But they listen to me if they think what I'm talking about is interesting otherwise they don't. And I'm not entirely sure if they don't care about me but that's the way I feel when I'm with them. Sometimes they do ask me for some advice but most of the time, even though I'm with them, it's as if I never existed.

Why would anyone do that when your trying to make them happy?


Thats completely assinine, even to my standards.
Because that's how they are

Good friends should treat you equally. Do they ever make fun of you or say things behind your back?

Good friends should treat you equally. Do they ever make fun of you or say things behind your back?
Not that I know of

I know that. But they listen to me if they think what I'm talking about is interesting otherwise they don't. And I'm not entirely sure if they don't care about me but that's the way I feel when I'm with them. Sometimes they do ask me for some advice but most of the time, even though I'm with them, it's as if I never existed.

If they ignore you most of the time, then mybe you shouldn't hang around them that much. I'm sorry if this sounds a little harsh, what i'm trying to say is, that it wouldn't be much fun if you just stand there an watch them do stuff.

I had friends like that before, and I sorta know what it's like.

Aww lil sis....cheer up ^_^
have a cupcake.

Bah x_x I'd just go and make new, better friends. This situation's a bitch, and it probably won't get easy overnight. They say, "Oh, I'm so soooorry! Let's hug and make up!" They treat you nicely for the rest of the day, but tomorrow it'll be like before. People can't really change easily.

That's my view, but maybe I'm just a little bit of a pessimist. It sounds like you've got a lot of affection to give and these people don't deserve it as much as others may.

Sometimes people care about you but just don't show it.

If they ignore you frequently when you try to talk to them (i.e. give you a short reply a lot or even ignore you completely), I'd say they are a waste of time and you should find someone else to be friends with.

If not, then it could be just my first statement.

Bah x_x I'd just go and make new, better friends. This situation's a bitch, and it probably won't get easy overnight. They say, "Oh, I'm so soooorry! Let's hug and make up!" They treat you nicely for the rest of the day, but tomorrow it'll be like before. People can't really change easily.

That's my view, but maybe I'm just a little bit of a pessimist. It sounds like you've got a lot of affection to give and these people don't deserve it as much as others may.
My "friends" are not like that. They never say "Oh, I'm so soooooorry! Let's hug and make up!"

At badgerblue: I asked them and they said that they just don't care about the stuff they're not interested in so they don't listen to me when I'm talking about stuff they don't like. But they said they do consider me as friends, only that I'm kinda boring. I had to hold my tongue because I was about to say, "Well, you're boring too!"

Anyways, thanks guys. You guys, even though I don't know you, have really helped me and made me feel better.

Sometimes people care about you but just don't show it.


i agree with an-kun...my friend never ever says i care about u unless i tell her first....but she still cares and she comes to me for help....

Sometimes people care about you but just don't show it.

If they ignore you frequently when you try to talk to them (i.e. give you a short reply a lot or even ignore you completely), I'd say they are a waste of time and you should find someone else to be friends with.

If not, then it could be just my first statement.
Yeah it must be your first statement. Hopefully it is.

did you talk to your firend about it yet?

EDIT: nvm, i didn't see it, you answered already

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Yeah. No need to sugar it up. It's a very shitty 'friendship'. There has to be a mutual respect, at least, for things to work out.

Ah, and the 'hug and make-up' crap was an exagerated example of whatever it is people say when they're sorry.

I honestly think that you deserve better friends. People can't change! This'll never change. GET OUT or something, while you can.

I think you're better off without a real friend than with some moron who doesn't care about you. It seems you're just a little blinded... I wouldn't be her friend. Then deception's gonna hurt more anyways. :\

In other words, this insolence of a friend shouldn't be in your life... at all.

If he/she comes running back to you, then's when the choice is hard to make; either forgive 'em or leave them in the dirt as revenge. :P

Thanks guys, you guys really helped me out. Right now, I'm hanging out with my other friends, Nicole (No, Mira, I' haven't been hanging out with Nicole lately) and Lyia and just ignoring my other "friends". I don't really think my other "friends" would care anyways. They'll just probably forget about me ASAP. And now, mah life is better. ^_^ ^_^ ^_^ ^_^ ^_^ ^_^

congrats

EDIT: Ignore this post.