When I first came here, before it got shut down, everything was very open. Every topic had something for everyone to talk about. Now, it seems like this is only for people who play instruments or those who have been for a while. Is it just me? I know other people seem to fit in, but what are we supposed to do when there aren't things that people want to talk about with us? Maybe I'll just say me. What am I supposed to do when I don't see anything ' inviting'? :think:

Hey I had the same problem when I first came here. You just have to get out there and post. even if you don't know wth there talking about.

I have the same problem too!! *passes out chocolate* I mean, we might be new, but when did we lose the title of MEMBER right?

*kicks you all in the shin and runs*

I have the same problem too!! *passes out chocolate* I mean, we might be new, but when did we lose the title of MEMBER right?

*Takes chocolate* Thanks.

@Theviolinist: What if I don't give a :!: about what they're talking about?

Hey I had the same problem when I first came here. You just have to get out there and post. even if you don't know wth there talking about.

I second that notion. If you feel like you dont belong...then just pretend like you do. Sooner or later everyone will just ne used to having you around.

*kicks ashtray in the balls for spamming*

I'm pretty sure no one is trying to exclude any of you so just go for it. Make aplace for yourself ^_^

You're so cyberist from all us newbies *shoots Muffin before he makes it out the door lol jk jk* Seriously, if you feel left out it's only you're own mentality that's making you feel that way. Maybe when you feel this way, just state it out in the place you feel left out at. By the way I'm DiamondSeraph, I'm not really new, but I don't like to make people feel left out, I'll be your friend

I'll be your friend tooooo

*kicks fob in the va jj*

*runs*

Will you please stop the kicking

Post even if you don't care about what there talking about pretend you do. and If ya need I'll be your buddy, and I promise I don't bite too hard

I never had the problem at all
I knew i was new
But i never felt like no1 wanted to talk to me
A tip
Post something interesting
thats wat i did
and now im famous
(looks at evry1)
Hahahah
...........
HAHAHAHA
uhhhh
right guys?

Heh heh, sometimes I felt that way in the RP XD. But you just gotta get yourself posting if you want to make a difference.

('course, well, I didn't start posting in the main plot till hubby asked me to join, but...)

Pfft. Dude, I'm a newbie, about a month or so total spent in here, and I feel pretty welcome here.

It's all about how you set yourself up. If you post something worth reading, and that sticks out amongst the sea of non-sense, people tend to notice you more. Then, hopefully, someone will reply to one of your posts, and presto, you've made friends.

Rinse, lather, Repeat.


Maybe it's because of my openess. I like to just throw random crap out there. People tend to like it. Oddly enough.

Er, but there /are/ topics for everything.... feel free to post whatever, and then I'm sure you'll settle in ^_^ peruse the forms a bit, and i think there are some threads that need to be revived...

If you still don't think this is the right place for you, it probably isn't and you can just get the *bleeping* *bleep* outta this *bleeping* place you *bleeper*

Please, take my sarcasm seriously.

i dissapeard for ages and it took me a while to fit back in,
it is welcoming here, especialy general chat (if they arent having a food fight :P )
just post and be hapy and if you dont gell or like it here then why drag urself though it all.
if your opinions on the subject are based on some of the higher level descusions in general disscusion, its not surpose to be a 'hi welcome to a deep discusion of religion' its what it says it is, a discusion so opinion can be argued and dissmissed.

but dont feel like ur being rejected

Join the RP thing. It's taken a considerable amount away from the general discussions and the like.

I had a lot of trouble reintegrating after a few months of absence because of the newbies that had sprouted up while I was away. I felt a little daunted, but y'know. Get your arse on the line and make a place for yourself.

Yeh i get what you mean. i joined quite a while ago....and only started posting recently so hardly anyone knows me, but it doesn't stop me from posting! These forums are here for you, and who says you can't start a thread of your own? Just try it, there's no need to feel afraid or left out!^_^

Maybe it's because of my openess. I like to just throw random crap out there. People tend to like it. Oddly enough.I'd like to think that a certain someone has set a precedence - do not disturb the Random People. :ph34r: That's why you and I goes on about our randomness happily. :3

By the grace of Angelic, mainly!

Bright. And shiny~!

its normal to feel left out at first since youre like in a new environment. but you'll learn to adopt pretty soon;)

did your egg hatch zach? it looks pretty burned

i'm pretty new and i feel 'part of it'
god that sound lame.

What? Left out? Then, go right. Just kidding.

I don't feel left out I think =p

i'm pretty new and i feel 'part of it'
god that sounds lame.
what the? i just accidently quoted myself, and it won't go away<_<

*Gives you all a smootch*

there.

now no one's left out.

What? Left out? Then, go right. Just kidding.
XD SOmetimes I still feel out of it. lol I have no slue as to understanding the RPG, which is why I don't join. As for feeling out of it. I even feel that way around my oldest friends most of the time.

hm... i sometimes feel that with my friends too. But i think that's because i look at things too deeply... e.g friend doesn't say hi to me in the hall, n i automatically think she's not talkin to me cus i've annoyed her...

My brain is too active 4 it's own gd!

Erp.

Okay. if you guys feel that left out, then, here. Talk to me on aim, well have a nice warm, welcoming chat.

Or something. Seriously.

--> YesPanda <--

@Deadpanda- cool avatar, shows the evil side of pandas! I like the one red eye thing too. v. kl.

@Deadpanda- cool avatar, shows the evil side of pandas! I like the one red eye thing too. v. kl.
t's very random and off topic but I second that. XD

hehe.. soz, i was bored and decided to post for the hell of it...

hehe.. soz, i was bored and decided to post for the hell of it...
*gasp* you evil spammer.:spam: < i love that pic.:P

Your spamming too! :shifty:
Spam... -shivers- bad memories!

the more you post, the more people will realise you're there.

true, that what this forum is here for too! ^_^

But is it so much how many times I post, or what I post? Could it bee that the meaning of what I post is more memorable or how many post I have? I would rather choose the latter...

However, such a choice would be good for a test but who would one listen to more depth over remembering how much? Think about Oprah Winfrey against yourself, who would people listen to more? Someone who's talked more to the masses or someone with something memorable. Take note that even people who do talk a great deal still have the probability of making great statements. This is double trouble for someone without enlongated charisma. People link by memory, they won't quantify your ideas so much without more to rank it on.

uhhh soo ashtr what is ur picture all about ewwww

all ya pplz are wierd lol (srry)heh really nervous

Well, if you ever need a friend, I'm here! And don't be shy;)

weird is good!

and why be nervous? its not like were going to eat you or anything ;)

Quantity, or quality.?




I prefere quality.

and why be nervous? its not like were going to eat you or anything ;)
We physically can't (well most of us). We live too far a way (most). XD

if anything id say its now harder for the older members to fit in. with alot of the old members gone alot of the new members seem to fit in with all the randomness that we've lost throughout the time here. so some of us feel outdated. Don't know why we still linger around here but we do.

-pat pat Sephiroth- i'm sure your not 'that' old! ^_^ naa only joking, all people are welcomed here!
Though I always thought that the old members felt more comfortable.....

if anything id say its now harder for the older members to fit in. with alot of the old members gone alot of the new members seem to fit in with all the randomness that we've lost throughout the time here. so some of us feel outdated. Don't know why we still linger around here but we do.

Old habbits die hard bro. I'm still an Ichigo'er for life (even if I don't post so much no more)!

Saying that, however, I refuse to say I'm old.

Though I always thought that the old members felt more comfortable.....

Only because we have stuck it out for so long that it's hard to miss our names on the forums.

unless of course, you've changed it XD
well, I was a new person once, I came after the revamp...

the first or second one?