(EXACT Post that was made like 8 mins. ago in What Kind of Girl or Guy would you go for, wasn't the best place. But here's the COPY+PASTE.)


Ok, so it may not be perfectly 'fit' in the topic (And I have some time) , but here it goes. I'll give it a cheesy title.

"FIRST ENCOUNTER" (Sure, I guess that works..)

So mainly this is a short story on how I might become 'special friends' with a girl from my school that I have this GIANT crush on. She's perfect (So far hehe) in my case. She plays flute, sticking with music into high school, has friends, cares, funny, cute, blond (I don't go for blonds usually!), blue eyed (another!) and is overall--cute again...

So anyway, this past friday was our school's final-end-of-the-year dance. Mainly the whole night I was just talking and walkin' around with the few friends I have. I noticed the girl that I really like was walking by me here and there-didn't know if she did have a thing for me, but I didn't pay much attention. I kept' look for the chance where I could say, "He Sam, you look pretty tonight :) ." And then maybe talk to her more throughout the night. No, I didn't because I am a very, very shy pansie. :heh:

Well, one of my friend-whos-a-girl that I've known forever said, "Who do you want to dance with?" Well, it only took her like 15 seconds to get it out of me (about 15 or less mins. left in the dance!!). So, she eventually finds the girl I like/love and tells her that I want to dance with her... well.. it seems that she kind of likes me as well. At this point my knees are going crazy, my belly has the butterflies, my teeth quietly chitter petitly, my hands and feet are numb and I am sweating in that sort of.. OMG feeling.

Finally, someone out there likes me-even if it's just a tiny crush. I felt weak, but on top of the world that someone likes me-even if it's a little crush. ^.^

Well, I guess she wasn't feeling well and I DID NOT get to dance with her, but wanted to meet at the local Pizza Hut after the dance. I am still like OMG and in shock. ^.^ So I go there, all pumped out that I am going to talk to her finally-yea, WRONG. I guess you can't get a word out of a girl if she's around with her girlfriends, and in a social place like this, it's like a fire in an ocean-I don't mix with crowds.

Well, after eating that disgusting pizza, she said, "Seth, I love you like a monkey loves a banana." In which I replied, "So.. I am a.. comfort food huh?" *Laugh from us* and then her friend (x_x ) interrupts with some weird comment in which I don't care what it was.

So she waved good-bye when her friends' parents came to pick them up and mouthed, "Call me!"

So, I do. She's with her friends... OK, I am like Ok screw that I can't talk and say, "Can I call you back some other time?" so she's OK with that.

I got sick that night. x_x So... I couldn't call her back. I felt so much that I screwed up... but I think I DIDN'T now. So I was sick on this Monday, but wrote her a note saying mainly that she looked pretty on Friday, and I want to get to know you more to become friends.. MY PHONE NUMBER. Anyway, and waiting for a reply phone-call from her soon.

I hope she calls, and I hope she isn't screwin' with my heart. :unsure: Anyway, I won't care (SO MUCH) if she shows me down, but it'd suck... but I have a little hope and I am so in "love" at the moment and motivating myself to write a frigging song for Piano+Orchestra about my feelings, but it seems weird to do that!

Anyway.. comments, advice, prayers for me please! Thanks! :sweat:

relationships in highschool are worthless. that is, unless they continue until after highschool. other than that, chill out. be yourself.

awwwww u got it real bad for her!! she'll call you, don't worry. but don't hold your breath

My, aren't you a wreck.

You take things too seriously...
It's only high school. Even if you end up going out with her, I doubt it'll lead to anything beyond high school.

"motivating myself to write a frigging song for Piano+Orchestra about my feelings, but it seems weird to do that!"...
It's not... I made a (what was it?)... 271 measured composition on piano (I don't even play piano)... that was depressing.

That happened to me... except I didn't want to dance with her (my friend just told her) and she goes hiding in the girl's bathroom... :heh:

If she screws you over....don't kill yourself. just don't.

It'd be nice to feel what you're feeling again.

Finally, someone out there likes me-even if it's just a tiny crush. I felt weak, but on top of the world that someone likes me-even if it's a little crush. ^.^

So, supposibly, you're either ugly or has a bad personality? That's what it sounds like to me.

Well, after eating that disgusting pizza, she said, "Seth, I love you like a monkey loves a banana." In which I replied, "So.. I am a.. comfort food huh?" *Laugh from us* and then her friend (x_x) interrupts with some weird comment in which I don't care what it was.

You hate pizza? Seth?! That's you right? What's a comfort food? Well anywayz, it seems to me that she actually meant that she's crazy over you.

I hope she calls, and I hope she isn't screwin' with my heart. :unsure: Anyway, I won't care (SO MUCH) if she shows me down, but it'd suck... but I have a little hope and I am so in "love" at the moment and motivating myself to write a frigging song for Piano+Orchestra about my feelings, but it seems weird to do that!

It doesn't seem like it, from your side of the story. There is nothing weird with that, in your situation.

Just wait, I guess. Good luck with her, but remember there is always someone better out there if she doesn't want you.

yea thats also true

Slip your finger in the brown

Don't sweat it. What you DON'T want to do is become her friend past "Yeah, Seph is my friend" As soon as you become that, you ask her out. Don't you dare wait until you are like best friends with her, cuz that shit will come crashing down. You ask her out, even if you don't know for sure she'll say yes.

heh long time since i felt like that and being honest yea i'd like to have a girlfriend but i dunno if im ready to leta girl get that close to me again. secondary school relationships are pretty much pointless but at the same time its experience non the less. you'll learn alot from whatever the outcome is. if things go well then you get to experience what a relationship is like and get a lot of lessons from it. but be strong and know that highschool relationships dont normally last so try and hold yourself back a bit so that you dont fully go down when things go tits up. if the coin falls on the other side and you get messed about learn from it and know how girls act. you can generally tell with enough experience what excuses girls come up with to get away from people. with my experience and from the little information ive read from this thread id say your in a good position. but don't get your hopes up because women are always unpredictable

Slip your finger in the brown
Don't you mean pink?

Shocker?

IDK maybe we should not talk about that, its obviously not what the OP is askin bout.

Don't you mean pink?

nah, brown.... or both :rukia:

Perhaps she might never call because she feels the same way you feel - nervous. So, this relationship will go never if someone doesn't step up, preferably you =P

And you're still in highschool so let this be a good experience for the future - and get some experience points on making out/sexing =) Be sure to tell us if you level up *cough*

Good luck!

(PS. Odd comments, Deadly Love) XD

Be sure to tell us if you level up *cough*

Good luck!

(PS. Odd comments, Deadly Love) XD

*coughGeekcough*

@OP-Hope all goes well!

God. This almost perfectly describes me in fifth grade... except for the parts where anything good happens. =_= LoL. Seems aeons ago. XD

Anyways, I don't see why you're so nervous and stuff like that. After all, most of the time, when you love someone, it's because you feel comfortable around them, not awkward/nervous. Don't be so like: "OMG!"

God. This almost perfectly describes me in fifth grade...

Oh dang, that's just harsh

I can hardly remember the 5th grade..O.o
OT I know but love is.....to a certain degree unattainable. (My head hurts from thinking)

Oh dang, that's just harsh

Did it really sound harsh? My bad... :heh: Sorry, Maestro. I simply speak the first things that come to mind. Sorry if those things happen to come off as offensive... :sweat:

Hah! Thanks everyone for your comments advice and good lucks! I learned somethings that I needed to learn, and saw some things where I am like; wrong topic bud.

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Thanks everyone!

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For some replys:

It's not that I hate pizza, I hate Pizza Hut. Difference.

And comfort food wasa 'joke.'

Mainly the big thing is, I don't get SO nervous anymore when I think about her here and there, but I get a little "butterfly stomache."

Also, if she doesn't call, I could see her being nervous around me. I mean, not many people approach me because the look on my face seems a little hostile when it's relaxed, or I am known to have a short temper and anything COULD set me off-though that is a complete rumor at school. - She also kind of hesitates if she looks at me, I'll glance at her at school a few times, but it takes her a little to notice then makes a sheepish look/glance at me. (Periferal Vision, I COULD SEE IT!)

Anyway, I am thinkin' she'll call soon, but my brother said, "Give it about 2 to maybe 3 weeks. No call, just call back sayin 'How is your summer goin on?'."

But thanks again peeps. ^.^

but my brother said, "Give it about 2 to maybe 3 weeks. No call, just call back sayin 'How is your summer goin on?'."

But thanks again peeps. ^.^

Sounds like veru nice solid advice.

Lol, seriously-it does to me.

Perfect line for conversation !

Nice to be able to learn from big bro's experience. I'll have to stock up so I can help me little ones XD

yea, call to ask about her summer is good, then you can branch it off to asking her out or something

yea, call to ask about her summer is good, then you can branch it off to asking her out or something

I don't recommend asking her out on the phone. I find it kinda... coward-ish. Anyways, I still say you should ask to meet up with her somewhere or something, then you can ask her out, hehe. ^_^

bowling has definately gotta be bowling. its fun for both people and your out. dont bother about cinema because you go there and you dont talk so you cant know each other better and stay quiet throughout the film. unless you have confidence which no offence im sure your lackin to make moves on her whilst at the cinema it leaves us with bowlin. crack a few jokes you can know each other better and she can walk away thinkin yeah that was fun i wanna do it again and she'll remember that night and you. but you gotta keep things lively whilst your there or your doomed

I'm pretty sure shell call u... and like... tom said...


relationships in highschool are worthless. that is, unless they continue until after highschool. other than that, chill out. be yourself.

That's true... so.. I wouldnt get ur hopes too high cuz then itll all fall apart later...

Perhaps she might never call because she feels the same way you feel - nervous. So, this relationship will go never if someone doesn't step up, preferably you =P

And you're still in highschool so let this be a good experience for the future - and get some experience points on making out/sexing =) Be sure to tell us if you level up *cough*

Good luck!

(PS. Odd comments, Deadly Love) XD
I know, gosh. I was bored. I couldn't think right.

I'm pretty sure shell call u... and like... tom said...



That's true... so.. I wouldnt get ur hopes too high cuz then itll all fall apart later...

Yea, I'm not. That past week or so I was so nervous that I gave myself my own stomach bug (which was how I got sick that weekend).

And yea, about her calling me or me calling her I'll have to make a little plan (not to extravegant) for like a bowling night or something-just whatever comes to mind.

Still thanks everyone-you give this shy fag confidence LOL.

someone's in love.
that's nice.

call her. talk to her.
ask her questions about anything. then ask her out.

girls like it when you can make them laugh. hope this helps.

Geez, I need to know how to get people to laugh. *finds corny jokes or ways of speaking etc*

:heh: ...

*finds corny jokes or ways of speaking etc*

Not a very good idea. XD It should come naturally.

I know, I was kidding Marl 0.+

u could ask her 2 go skating also, lots of girls like skating... not very smart to ask her out over the phone tho, she might think ur to scared to ask her out in person or somin. (ive had bad experiences like that in a way except it was on messenger)

Well, this week I am going to contact her.

She hasn't called me back though. Been a little depressed-though I didn't even get my hopes up.

I am going to call her later this week, and hopefully meet up somewhere (not nessacarily a date) and then ask her out somewhere.

Thinking bowling-heh. BUt with her best friend, and mine too.

hmm...is that a double date? or a chaperoned one?

Eh.. kind of a double date, but not really? :heh:

Anyway, this is more of a topic rezz, and might ask questions later.

I've had talks with my brothers and my friend on what I SHOULD do, not it's doing it.

Well not to be mean and all but all that story is..is a puppy love story. Sorry but it really doesn't sound like you two are really mature enough for "love" yet. I mean if she has to get her friends to ask you to dance for her (or arrange a dance) then they are just a little too immature and still don't know how to express feeling the right way. But hey, don't let me get you down, I could be wrong. But even thought how good these feelings are, you will know when you are REALLY in love when you are. I find that love for me, is when you will do anything to make that person happy, even if it means for you to leave the picture for a while, until that fatefull day comes when she comes running back into your arms. *sigh*

PS. Don't get all Emo when she doesn't call, most girls don't like it when you are depressed all the time, you have to give her breathing space. Plus most of the time she won't give you sympathy, it will be her friends (if they like you) and that is really never a good thing lol.

I coulden't have said it better, Sukate; well said. I think you might be on to something.

Heh. Don't worry, I am not the emo-depressive. I am more of the alone-depressive. Like, when I am depressed I need about a good week alone, or just hanging with family-then I am back to go. Which I am almost.

Later this week, I am calling her and inviting her to go somewhere. Anyway, I will express myself as a more relaxed person that she has actually seen me as (Shy, quiet, unknowing, talented) a more out-there kind of person. Someonw who can laugh and TALK now. Mainly, this is because I have been more talative and have been changing over the past few weeks. I am, seriously, coming out of my shell, and I am NOW being myself-not upbeat and alone. That is why, I love the color Red, not blue.

EDIT - @Suakte - She didn't ask, I did. :o