Hello peoples. I am a guy, and I am bisexual. So lets get to the point. Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friends boyfriend? Because on one hand, the guy is real cute. On the other hand, my friend would kick my -cough- if she knew that I wanted him for my own. And she is not one to share. Lol, and not share as in the way you people are thinking. Share as in like, a relationship. Which alot of Bi's do that....but she is not one to.

uh.... ::speechless::
you know what, if it's really love then go for it. I mean love is love and there has to be a reason you love him so sure. There is nothing wrong with it. Though your reason for loving him might be the same as your friend.... there is no reason that is better or ones that hold higher precedence, but hopefully you have one that is enough to justify it... hopefully you don't lose a friend over somethin small.

Yeah, hopefully. Lol, thanks? I wasnt really expecting to get a good reply from this. Here in FL, its usually getting made fun of or something different. But...like I said, thanks?

do you know for sure if your love interest is bisexual? If not, its not worth a friend. if he is...well, too bad for your friend.

Lol, yeah Im pretty sure. But I dont want to go killing our relationships as friends. Its not like he would come to me any way, I am more Ukeish then ever, and so is he. So I dont know....its sort of like a hope thing. When we talked I got the feeling he liked me, and the other thing is, my friend is 19. The guy she is going out with is 13. I dont think thats right. All the more reason for me to love him, seeing as we are in the same age-group.

and the other thing is, my friend is 19. The guy she is going out with is 13. I dont think thats right. All the more reason for me to love him, seeing as we are in the same age-group.

Wow...

If its love then go for it!

Yeah, hopefully. Lol, thanks? I wasnt really expecting to get a good reply from this. Here in FL, its usually getting made fun of or something different. But...like I said, thanks?

Everyone here isn't completely accepted so we all know what it's like, don't expect anything but nice comments as long as you're honest and actually want us to listen. ::lol:

Good luck, this really does bother you doesn't it? and you're sincere aren't you?
well... then you should have no problem

Thanks again. :D

*head explodes*

Put yourself in her shoes. Or his shoes. And google for Occam's Razor.

19 going out with a 13? isn't that like... illegal?

Indeed, it's terms for statutory, but that applies in terms of sex--regardless of the person-in-question's concent to the subject. Unless the parrents allow it. Which then if the child gives concent, it's perfectly legal. :mellow:

I found that clause to be slightly, odd.

hmm...all I can say is...I envy him.

19 going out with a 13? isn't that like... illegal?

It's not illegal to have a relationship. It's illegal to have sex though...

er my opinion conflicts with most peoples'. it's someone's boyfriend, meaning they are in a relationship. It's morally wrong to go for the guy. You got to be sure that the guy is actually bi or gay as well. You could get your heart broken pretty bad. It's the first time I've heard of a 19 year old girl going out with a 13 year old guy. Judging by age you might work better with him, but think about how your friend would feel if you stole her boyfriend.

True... you cant just steal her Boyfriend...just make clear you have feelins for him...ad yeah making sure he's bi first is ....DUH!

*head explodes*

Put yourself in her shoes. Or his shoes. And google for Occam's Razor.:lol: :lol: :lol: I think you spelled it wrong though isn't it Ockam? (philosophy makes me happy)

as for the issue, HELL YEAH IT's Wrong..... go for it! (lol) But seriously, if you have to ask....then the answer is probably not in your liking. It's up to you whether you still want to attempt or not.