Okay, see, I have this major crush on this guy in school, who already has a gf who is my friend, and I'm trying to get over him but I'm having trouble doing that cuz he talks to me everyday. Well, almost everyday. Usually, my crushes don't last long, probably week or so, but never 2 years. I don't think I love him though. It's kinda weird for me to have a crush on him cuz I usually hate guys, he doesn't pass for my perfect guy list, and I only think of him as a victim.

I'm trying to get over him because:
1. his gf is my friend
2. he only thinks of me as a sister (that bastard always ask me for money)

Anybody have any advice on how to get over him? Don't tell me to go to the thread "How to get over a girl.." or "Crushes" cuz I already went there and it did not help.

.

I got some advice for ya lil sis
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mwhahahaha I'm soo 3VIL :shifty:
(that smilie is starting to loose meaning)
(MUST...FIND.....BETTER....3VIL SMILIE!)
Hmm...:torch:
Oooo....:devil:
He's MY daddy :vader:

OMG 3VIL!!! It's the very difinition!!
:rukia: I AM a genius I know -_-
You're not funny. Troll.



Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.

or summin'

:unsure:

Look around you, there must be someone who is better then he is.. And if not, then just tell him how you feel, or avoid him.. =)

It's clear that he's a certain 'someone' to you. You still care for him, even though it's not love. You described the relationship best: Like a sister. I don't know the 'ever so importat' information or the basic psychology/personallity of both of you, but, from what you provided, it sounds like that fits it best.

At times like these it's best to ride it out and act how you feel you should act. Even though it may cause harm to your character or your friend, it is best to be honest (unless you like playing with emotions--but that's another story...) Maybe being like a sister to him will satasfy what you're looking for.

But I've never had this problem--pro'lly because I'm a guy and I'm pretty sure I'm not homosexual--but it's the best I can do for ya. Good luck!

I got some advice for ya lil sis
http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c325/miranda8009/orange.jpg

mwhahahaha I'm soo 3VIL :shifty:
(that smilie is starting to loose meaning)
(MUST...FIND.....BETTER....3VIL SMILIE!)
Hmm...:torch:
Oooo....:devil:
He's MY daddy :vader:

OMG 3VIL!!! It's the very difinition!!
:rukia: I AM a genius I know -_-
I know guys are stupid and all but I still like him.


You're not funny. Troll.



Just talk to him and tell him how you feel.

or summin'

:unsure:

Too shy.


Look around you, there must be someone who is better then he is.. And if not, then just tell him how you feel, or avoid him.. =)

I 've looked and looked but I can't find anyone better than him. Too shy to tell him. Tried avoiding him but doesn't work. When I walk home, there's only one way, he's always by the basketball court which I have to pass and when he sees me he comes up and ask for money.


It's clear that he's a certain 'someone' to you. You still care for him, even though it's not love. You described the relationship best: Like a sister. I don't know the 'ever so importat' information or the basic psychology/personallity of both of you, but, from what you provided, it sounds like that fits it best.

At times like these it's best to ride it out and act how you feel you should act. Even though it may cause harm to your character or your friend, it is best to be honest (unless you like playing with emotions--but that's another story...) Maybe being like a sister to him will satasfy what you're looking for.

But I've never had this problem--pro'lly because I'm a guy and I'm pretty sure I'm not homosexual--but it's the best I can do for ya. Good luck!

What fits it best?

I do act how I feel I'm supposed to act. I don't want her to get mad at me if I'm honest.

Anyways, I know I don't have a chance cuz she's more compatible with him than I am with him.

If you want proof then go to http://bishoujoland.tripod.com/love.html and then put down the following names:

Christelle San Juan + Johnny Sablas Jr.
Mary Joy Membreve + Johnny Sablas Jr.

and it will show you that we're 72% compatible while they're 93% compatible.

I got some advice for ya lil sis
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My response to that is that girls can't throw so you'd never hit us. :P

Stop giving him money, that's just him using you. I think you shouldn't always force love so instead of looking for another guy just do your own things in life and try not to talk to him as much by giving excuses like you need the loo.

My advice? Forget about him...if you know you can't be with him, then just forget about him. Also, he's just using you if he just asks you for money, tell him to earn it

My response to that is that girls can't throw so you'd never hit us. :P

Stop giving him money, that's just him using you. I think you shouldn't always force love so instead of looking for another guy just do your own things in life and try not to talk to him as much by giving excuses like you need the loo.

I don't give him the money. I just walk away and say forget it.

P.S.
Some girls can throw and I would be one of them.


My advice? Forget about him...if you know you can't be with him, then just forget about him. Also, he's just using you if he just asks you for money, tell him to earn it

Uh...hello? That's why I made this thread. For people to give me advice on how to forget about him cuz I can't manage to do it on my own.

well it's basically the same way as to get over a girl. Just stop thinking about relationships and just take up hobbies, do other stuff etc. Nobody can really help you unless you help yourself.

Well of course I know some girls can throw, just that when someone says boys are stupid as a general statement, most guys aren't (as opposed to some). Just making a point really.

well it's basically the same way as to get over a girl. Just stop thinking about relationships and just take up hobbies, do other stuff etc. Nobody can really help you unless you help yourself.

Well of course I know some girls can throw, just that when someone says boys are stupid as a general statement, most guys aren't (as opposed to some). Just making a point really.
I did all that, nothing happened. I am trying to help myself you know, only nothing happens.

Correction: Some guys aren't stupid. Most are.

I did all that, nothing happened. I am trying to help myself you know, only nothing happens.

Correction: Some guys aren't stupid. Most are.

If you really need help with an issue, don't come to a forum and tell everyone that all their ideas don't or are already tried, maybe you should talk to a friend about this in your sexism 101 class.

I did all that, nothing happened. I am trying to help myself you know, only nothing happens.

Correction: Some guys aren't stupid. Most are.

Sorry but you just contradicted yourself. If you actually tried to stop thinking about relationships you wouldn't have a problem in the first place.

I don't know where you live, but either the guys around you are stupid or you're just being sexist. Anyway it's a dumb thing to argue about since it's totally irrelevant to the topic.

Well if you've tried everything everyone's said and nothing happens, then I guess you're doomed to eternal suffering being stuck with that guy.

Sorry but you just contradicted yourself. If you actually tried to stop thinking about relationships you wouldn't have a problem in the first place.

I don't know where you live, but either the guys around you are stupid or you're just being sexist. Anyway it's a dumb thing to argue about since it's totally irrelevant to the topic.

Well if you've tried everything everyone's said and nothing happens, then I guess you're doomed to eternal suffering being stuck with that guy.
It just hit me. I never actually thought of frelationships or anything, it's just when I saw him again in 6th grade, I actually started liking him for I dunno what reason.


If you really need help with an issue, don't come to a forum and tell everyone that all their ideas don't or are already tried, maybe you should talk to a friend about this in your sexism 101 class.
Uhh...I don't have a class like that, if you're not being sarcastic. Isn't that class in like high school or something? I'm in 6th grade.

When you look at him, think about the worst fear and try to connect the two.

If it's snakes, have fun. >.>

Btw, I make fun of this girl that likes me. Will that make her hate me? Although, yes, everyone's different but just curious... if I made fun of you a lot (daily basis), will not like me anymore? =(

When you look at him, think about the worst fear and try to connect the two.

If it's snakes, have fun. >.>

Btw, I make fun of this girl that likes me. Will that make her hate me? Although, yes, everyone's different but just curious... if I made fun of you a lot (daily basis), will not like me anymore? =(
I'll try your advice.

Well, if you made fun of me in a daily basis and I liked you, I don't think I'll actually start hating you. I mean this guy does like to make fun of me a lot and he likes to mimic me too. That bastard! But even though he does that and he really pisses me off at times and I got used to it already (why shouldn't I if I have my bros anyways), I still like him which is really weird. For me that is.

Btw, I make fun of this girl that likes me. Will that make her hate me? Although, yes, everyone's different but just curious... if I made fun of you a lot (daily basis), will not like me anymore? =(She might even like you more for doing that to her. And if you are really nice to her once in a blue moon . . . but you're not interested in the rest.

*ninja vanish!*

When you look at him, think about the worst fear and try to connect the two.

If it's snakes, have fun. >.>

Btw, I make fun of this girl that likes me. Will that make her hate me? Although, yes, everyone's different but just curious... if I made fun of you a lot (daily basis), will not like me anymore? =(
I thought about my worst fear and it was that I might not be missed when I die. I tried to connect the two but I can't somehow connect them. I'm so stupid.

I thought about my worst fear and it was that I might not be missed when I die. I tried to connect the two but I can't somehow connect them. I'm so stupid.

Okay, not bad. The thought that you might be missed... meaning, you are alone. Think of him as the entity of that feeling of "alone" and not necessarily stay away from him but remember that feeling and picture him with it. And when he's with you, try to grasp that feeling. Obviously, it's hard and not everyone can do it. Only the saddistic can.... >.> Make sense? =/

My (girl) friend says:

- for me it's finding things to divert my mind away from thinking about the guy
- and to keep telling myself that there is more than one guy out there for me. and i'm still young. and i'm gonna meet many more guys in the future. and using time to think about a guy that doesn't like me back is a waste of my energy and time, and it's definitely not worth it
- or eat cake

Listen to this girl, she's a smarty pants.

edit: And about that girl, I just talked to her... she says she misses me. <3

Okay, not bad. The thought that you might be missed... meaning, you are alone. Think of him as the entity of that feeling of "alone" and not necessarily stay away from him but remember that feeling and picture him with it. And when he's with you, try to grasp that feeling. Obviously, it's hard and not everyone can do it. Only the saddistic can.... >.> Make sense? =/

My (girl) friend says:

Listen to this girl, she's a smarty pants.

edit: And about that girl, I just talked to her... she says she misses me. <3
No, it doesn't make any sense to me. I don't get the first thing that you're gf said. I'm not allowed to eat cake. Part of the second one that your gf said about the fact that she's gonna meet many more guys in the future, well, all I can say about that is that out of all those guys you're gonna meet in the future, only one is really for you. So who cares if you meet more guys if out of all those guys only one's feelings are true?

Psh. You're really into that love crap? You really believe in destiny for two lovers? I don't want to discourage you or anything but I think that's a load of crap. :heh:

And just accept it -- this guy doesn't like you. If he did, he would have made a move long ago. What my friend is trying to impose is that he is not the "one" for you, therefore move along and find someone else. Common sense but of course, not very easy to accomplish. Don't feel bad though, you'll obviously looking in the wrong direction.

Psh. You're really into that love crap? You really believe in destiny for two lovers? I don't want to discourage you or anything but I think that's a load of crap. :heh:

And just accept it -- this guy doesn't like you. If he did, he would have made a move long ago. What my friend is trying to impose is that he is not the "one" for you, therefore move along and find someone else. Common sense but of course, not very easy to accomplish. Don't feel bad though, you'll obviously looking in the wrong direction.
I'm a girl. What do you expect? And I think I've watched too many TV shows and movies about that kind of stuff. People have different thoughts about different things.

I've already accepted that he doesn't like me but somehow I still like him. And, he doesn't like to talk to girls except if the girl talks to him first. Well, besides the times that he asks me for money, that is. I'm trying to move on with my life but nothing is happening. I'm trying to find someone else but I don't feel anything. I know that somehow I am looking in the wrong direction but I don't know what direction to look.

Look inside.

Look inside.
Please explain what you meant by that cuz I'm so stupid that I don't even get that.

I don't think you're stupid, just upset that things aren't going the way you want it.

I don't think that you're capable of looking inside at the moment, upside as you are. You'll only see turmoil if you look.

What you need is something to calm you down, like, a hot Venti cup of camomile Tazo tea from Starbucks and some peace and quiet. Make that a few day's worth of peace and quiet and hot Starbucks camomile tea - I remember that it took me sometime to get over stuff like this when I was young(er).

Maybe when you're calmer, not so upset, then you can see inside yourself, and find what truly matters to you. Or what else that matters more to you than just another guy in this whole wide world.

I don't think you're stupid, just upset that things aren't going the way you want it.

I don't think that you're capable of looking inside at the moment, upside as you are. You'll only see turmoil if you look.

What you need is something to calm you down, like, a hot Venti cup of camomile Tazo tea from Starbucks and some peace and quiet. Make that a few day's worth of peace and quiet and hot Starbucks camomile tea - I remember that it took me sometime to get over stuff like this when I was young(er).

Maybe when you're calmer, not so upset, then you can see inside yourself, and find what truly matters to you. Or what else that matters more to you than just another guy in this whole wide world.
Upset about what? That I can't get over him?

I hate tea. Nothing can calm me down. I'm always too hyper or upset. Currently, I'm upset.

Upset about what? That I can't get over him?Upset that "things aren't going your way". Honestly, if I could be anymore specific, I would but I'm not a)you b)stalking you c)a mindreader.


I hate tea. Nothing can calm me down. I'm always too hyper or upset. Currently, I'm upset.Sounds like medications oughta do the trick. Or swimming. If nothing can calm you down, then a)look harder b)pray to a superior being c)make the most out of it d)I wish you luck - you seem to need it.

Also, you're not "always too hyper or upset". This is a negative generalisation that puts you in the position of the victim, that strips you of your control over your life. The truth should be closer to "you're always too hyper or upset whenever you feel like being too hyper or upset". Search your feelings. You know it to be true. Look inside.

I'm a girl. What do you expect? And I think I've watched too many TV shows and movies about that kind of stuff. People have different thoughts about different things.

I've already accepted that he doesn't like me but somehow I still like him. And, he doesn't like to talk to girls except if the girl talks to him first. Well, besides the times that he asks me for money, that is. I'm trying to move on with my life but nothing is happening. I'm trying to find someone else but I don't feel anything. I know that somehow I am looking in the wrong direction but I don't know what direction to look.


Sephirite is right
(hey that rymes)
Ur too young for this
oh and u said u dont know which directions to look at
Well ill help u
Oh and i u know ur lookin at the wrong direction
then ask for directions
or look at another direction
Which direction did u look b4?
well anyways since u looked at that direction
why dont u try looking in the southeast
there might be som1 there
otherwise u can look in the South
(Oh and head north first and go to the top of a mountain
For a much better view)
Ha sephirite is correct
Ur too young for this LOAD OF CRAP! HA
forget bout the guy he's stupid anyways
and forget bout lovin a guy
Too early brother
Anyways no kids like u can stick with a partner forever
Its like a video game
Somene gets bored then
Its GAME OVER
So that person will buy another
To TRY AGAIN
In ur case
Wait till ur legally able to play that game
see the game u wanna play right now
is rated MATURE
u r just a stupid little kid
who knows nothin bout that game
So jus forget other wise
U wud be arrested
In ur case ur gonna be broken hearted
Who's behind me?
Im always right

Sephirite is right
(hey that rymes)
Ur too young for this
oh and u said u dont know which directions to look at
Well ill help u
Oh and i u know ur lookin at the wrong direction
then ask for directions
or look at another direction
Which direction did u look b4?
well anyways since u looked at that direction
why dont u try looking in the southeast
there might be som1 there
otherwise u can look in the South
(Oh and head north first and go to the top of a mountain
For a much better view)
Ha sephirite is correct
Ur too young for this LOAD OF CRAP! HA
forget bout the guy he's stupid anyways
and forget bout lovin a guy
Too early brother
Anyways no kids like u can stick with a partner forever
Its like a video game
Somene gets bored then
Its GAME OVER
So that person will buy another
To TRY AGAIN
In ur case
Wait till ur legally able to play that game
see the game u wanna play right now
is rated MATURE
u r just a stupid little kid
who knows nothin bout that game
So jus forget other wise
U wud be arrested
In ur case ur gonna be broken hearted
Who's behind me?
Im always right
Oh shut up...Samgel. I thought you said that you read everything in this thread. Guess you didn't cuz on my very first post, I said that I wasn't in love with him. Second of all, I never had a sex change. I was really born a girl so stop calling me a lesbo or brother cuz I'm not a guy. Thrid, how would you know if he's stupid or not? You've never met him cuz you're too busy hanging out with your friends. And fourth of all, even though I'm just a little kid and I'm inexperienced about love then how was I able to help badgerglue with his girl problems huh? Because I do know a couple things about it. And no, you're not always right. Conceited would be more truthful.


Upset that "things aren't going your way". Honestly, if I could be anymore specific, I would but I'm not a)you b)stalking you c)a mindreader.

Sounds like medications oughta do the trick. Or swimming. If nothing can calm you down, then a)look harder b)pray to a superior being c)make the most out of it d)I wish you luck - you seem to need it.

Also, you're not "always too hyper or upset". This is a negative generalisation that puts you in the position of the victim, that strips you of your control over your life. The truth should be closer to "you're always too hyper or upset whenever you feel like being too hyper or upset". Search your feelings. You know it to be true. Look inside.
So you saying that I'm upset because I can't seem to get him for myself or something? I hate medications. I dunno how to swim. Hmmm...I think sleeping ang eating calms me down a lot. Do you mean to pray to God? Make the most out of what?

Well, you see, actually I'm hyper when I'm at school because my friends are crazy (not mentally crazy of course but totally hyper) and I'm upset when I get home because I don't have no one else I can talk to about everything that's happening to me because this is what my family does:

1. Ignore me
2. Laugh at me
3. Tell me to shut up
4. Tease me

So then, I miss school and my friends.

Lol. Ignore Vincent, but I'm glad he agrees with me XD

It's better to experience "love" and relationships at an early age, I think so you can get used to it later in life. But it varies upon individual.

Anyways, still haven't gotten over him yet? Is there anything you are doing to divert your attention away from him?

I'm trying to find someone else but I don't feel anything. I know that somehow I am looking in the wrong direction but I don't know what direction to look.

the only advice i can give...is don't even try to look for a direction until you're a bit more sure of yourself. Like Dark Bring said, just find someway to not think about it too much. Remember, time heals all wounds. So after some time, you probably won't feel the same way about him. Besides, trying to find someone else right now seems to make you think about him even more, and thats what your trying to avoid. besides, it's only a crush, right? most everyone gets over crushes and later feel almmost nothing at all, buit only if someone is actually willing to let go of those feelings.

the only advice i can give...is don't even try to look for a direction until you're a bit more sure of yourself. Like Dark Bring said, just find someway to not think about it too much. Remember, time heals all wounds. So after some time, you probably won't feel the same way about him. Besides, trying to find someone else right now seems to make you think about him even more, and thats what your trying to avoid. besides, it's only a crush, right? most everyone gets over crushes and later feel almmost nothing at all, buit only if someone is actually willing to let go of those feelings.

:EDIT:



It would help to divert your attention somehow. so yeah, anything that you like to do is a nice way to not worry about it.
I hardly think about him, really. Especially, when I'm at school. I'm too busy with my friends to actually think of him but when I see him or he talks to me I feel that way again. Yeah, it's only a crush, but this one is kinda different from my other crushes. This one has been going on for 2 years now and the rest are only a couple weeks or months. I got over the rest pretty easily but this one is giving me a hard time to get over. I am willing to let go of my feelings for him because I know that I'm not supposed to like him because he already has a gf that is my friend.

P.S.
What's weird though is that half the stuff that I like to do reminds me of him.

Anyways, still haven't gotten over him yet? Is there anything you are doing to divert your attention away from him?
Nope, not over him yet. Yeah, but when my bff is not here (she's all the way in Washington to watch a concert) it's harder for me.

P.S.
What's weird though is that half the stuff that I like to do reminds me of him.

wait! after looking at this a different way, i'd say yeah, try not to think of him to much, but about the things you like to do...

if you like to do something, then go ahead and do it, even if it reminds you of him. You shouldn't let your crush control your life, so keep on doing the things you love. thats the only way to really get over it i think. Just accept things and move on. Don't hold back because of your crush. Don't let it stop you from having fun.

I think first you should get back all your money. Then, try to go and find for another crush, so that you can fill your mind with someone else. It is not exactly as easy as I say, isn't it.

So you saying that I'm upset because I can't seem to get him for myself or something?I think that your problem with this boy is the tip of the iceberg that's upsetting you.


I hate medications. I dunno how to swim. Hmmm...I think sleeping ang eating calms me down a lot. Do you mean to pray to God? Make the most out of what?Just random suggestions to calm you down and stuff. I pray to Utada Hikaru, or used to, anyways . . .


Well, you see, actually I'm hyper when I'm at school because my friends are crazy (not mentally crazy of course but totally hyper) and I'm upset when I get home because I don't have no one else I can talk to about everything that's happening to me because this is what my family does:

1. Ignore me
2. Laugh at me
3. Tell me to shut up
4. Tease me

So then, I miss school and my friends.You're hyper because you don't have any other way to vent off the steam. If hyperness is your only way to vent your frustrations . . . I suggest that you find something calmer to do. Like, meditation.

I think that your problem with this boy is the tip of the iceberg that's upsetting you.

Just random suggestions to calm you down and stuff. I pray to Utada Hikaru, or used to, anyways . . .

You're hyper because you don't have any other way to vent off the steam. If hyperness is your only way to vent your frustrations . . . I suggest that you find something calmer to do. Like, meditation.
I don't get your first sentence. Meditation? I'll try.


wait! after looking at this a different way, i'd say yeah, try not to think of him to much, but about the things you like to do...

if you like to do something, then go ahead and do it, even if it reminds you of him. You shouldn't let your crush control your life, so keep on doing the things you love. thats the only way to really get over it i think. Just accept things and move on. Don't hold back because of your crush. Don't let it stop you from having fun.
I do what I like to do. I don't let him control my life. I accepted the fact that he'll never like me years ago. I don't hold back. He doesn't stop me from having fun.


I think first you should get back all your money. Then, try to go and find for another crush, so that you can fill your mind with someone else. It is not exactly as easy as I say, isn't it.
He always pay me back. The only place I can look for guys to like is in school and seriously, I already checked out every guy in school and didn't find anybody. It ain't easy, as you say.

Lol. Ignore Vincent, but I'm glad he agrees with me XD

It's better to experience "love" and relationships at an early age, I think so you can get used to it later in life. But it varies upon individual.

Anyways, still haven't gotten over him yet? Is there anything you are doing to divert your attention away from him?

Well isnt it true
she should stay away from this LOAD OF CRAP
till he's like 16 or somethin
i mean he will never get on with another he
From now on i'll call Sephirite by brother
Cuz he is like me
Even though his mouth might deny it
his soul and his heart know its true
Heh,oh yeah getting back on the topic
forget bout the boy
he's no good
i can feel evil in his soul
i can see a dark aura on him
trust me that boy u say u like
is(as Sephirite,my brother says)
A LOAD OF CRAP!
HA! what dayya think of that?
oh i found away to get ur attention away from him
Hang around with the cool guys
Get into bad ass activities
will it aint gotta be cool but
as long as ur doin somtin fun and away from him
y dont u try baseball
im join in baseball
my most coolest pal is joinin
and we gonna rock
so yeha do somtin fun
if i were u i'd do stuff he doesnt like

Well isnt it true
she should stay away from this LOAD OF CRAP
till he's like 16 or somethin
i mean he will never get on with another he
From now on i'll call Sephirite by brother
Cuz he is like me
Even though his mouth might deny it
his soul and his heart know its true
Heh,oh yeah getting back on the topic
forget bout the boy
he's no good
i can feel evil in his soul
i can see a dark aura on him
trust me that boy u say u like
is(as Sephirite,my brother says)
A LOAD OF CRAP!
HA! what dayya think of that?
oh i found away to get ur attention away from him
Hang around with the cool guys
Get into bad ass activities
will it aint gotta be cool but
as long as ur doin somtin fun and away from him
y dont u try baseball
im join in baseball
my most coolest pal is joinin
and we gonna rock
so yeha do somtin fun
if i were u i'd do stuff he doesnt like
I'M NOT A HE YOU S****D D**BA*S! You can't feel eveil in his soul or see a dark aura on him because you don't even know who he is or what he looks like. Once, you said that he was short and fat but he's 2 inches taller than me and he is average. Why would I hang around with guys? Some of the guys that I know may be kinda cool but not the type that I'll hang out with. What, and get hit by the ball? No thanks. So you saying that Eddie's joining? I do what I like and I don't care if he likes it or not. I'm not trying to get him, s****d. I'm trying to get over him.

Ah, Vincent, you try so hard to be funny. ;) ... Just ignore him, Kike. :heh:

Obviously, he is more important (if not, special) to you than we thought. Usually when someone is hurt, they tend to avoid the thought yet you seem to go closer and closer to him. That is, unless you're not hurt and you're completely fine with him being with a girl... are you?

If so, you don't really like him. It's a fake emotion. He doesn't even exist. Your thoughts are meaningless. Get out of that fake world and into the real. There are more important things in life... don't let it control you. You can do it!

actually kike is in the real world
oh and it doesnt matter if u hang around with guys
its ok
because they'r cool that y u shud hang round with them
wud u rather hang round with stupid girls who r living low lives
Not really
u shud hang round with som1 like me or sephirite
were the coolest person in earth
u noticed i said coolest
because he is one cool guy like me
and i think of myself as one of the greatest person
and so is sephirite
know som1 that will tell u right things
or som1 that will help u
not some boy that only comes to u to ask for money
later when he asked for money again do this
"Hey Kike may I borrow some money,please?" boy
"Go back to Wh*reisland Jack*ss! Kike
Thats a good way
he will totally hate u and stop bothering for that
unless he is mentally retarded just like
how u describe urself
then he will just laugh and laugh and keep talking bout u
saying those memorable words
bout the baseball its Cesar not Eddie
oh and its 3:30 every school day
u wont get hit
unless ur homosexual
just like what u said in te previous time

actually kike is in the real world
oh and it doesnt matter if u hang around with guys
its ok
because they'r cool that y u shud hang round with them
wud u rather hang round with stupid girls who r living low lives
Not really
u shud hang round with som1 like me or sephirite
were the coolest person in earth
u noticed i said coolest
because he is one cool guy like me
and i think of myself as one of the greatest person
and so is sephirite
know som1 that will tell u right things
or som1 that will help u
not some boy that only comes to u to ask for money
later when he asked for money again do this
"Hey Kike may I borrow some money,please?" boy
"Go back to Wh*reisland Jack*ss! Kike
Thats a good way
he will totally hate u and stop bothering for that
unless he is mentally retarded just like
how u describe urself
then he will just laugh and laugh and keep talking bout u
saying those memorable words
bout the baseball its Cesar not Eddie
oh and its 3:30 every school day
u wont get hit
unless ur homosexual
just like what u said in te previous time
You're really trying me, j**ka*s. I'm fine with the fact that Sephirite is cool and all but I won't say that you're the most coolest person in the world, conceited person. Oh yeah, and I don't personally say bad words besides a couple and one of the words I don't use is j**ka*s. He won't even get what I said if I told him that. He'll just go, "What?" and keep on bothering me for money. Excuse me, but I never described myself as retarded. Oh and, he's too scared of me to actually talk about me. His gf will tell me if he ever does talk crap about me and he knows that. I AM NOT HOMOSEXUAL YOU D**BA*S

Ah, Vincent, you try so hard to be funny. ;) ... Just ignore him, Kike. :heh:

Obviously, he is more important (if not, special) to you than we thought. Usually when someone is hurt, they tend to avoid the thought yet you seem to go closer and closer to him. That is, unless you're not hurt and you're completely fine with him being with a girl... are you?

If so, you don't really like him. It's a fake emotion. He doesn't even exist. Your thoughts are meaningless. Get out of that fake world and into the real. There are more important things in life... don't let it control you. You can do it!
How can I if he keeps on teasing me about it IN REAL LIFE? Me? Hurt? You've gotta be kidding me. And I am completely fine with him having a gf. Just want to get over him already. It's kinda getting on my nerves, especially when people tease me about it. And I'm not the type to get jealous over a guy.

I'm giving 100% on getting over him but when I see him, it comes back all over again.

You're in the sixth grade, which makes you around what 12, 13? You should be enjoying your childish innocence, and cavorting around with your friends etc. etc. But I guess it's to late for that.

eh, you're 12/13? there's another way of doing what you want to do. Just try and figure it out yourself. You'll get smarter and more mature and eventually, you'll be fine. Older teenagers usually have had to sort out these problems by themselves. It's an on-going thing. All single adults have to sort through relationship problems in the same way as you're doing now, but it gets easier to do with experience. Life's too short to drool over one guy or girl.

You're in the sixth grade, which makes you around what 12, 13? You should be enjoying your childish innocence, and cavorting around with your friends etc. etc. But I guess it's to late for that.
11, turning 12 in 4 days. What does cavorting mean?


eh, you're 12/13? there's another way of doing what you want to do. Just try and figure it out yourself. You'll get smarter and more mature and eventually, you'll be fine. Older teenagers usually have had to sort out these problems by themselves. It's an on-going thing. All single adults have to sort through relationship problems in the same way as you're doing now, but it gets easier to do with experience. Life's too short to drool over one guy or girl.
11, almost 12. I am doing what I want to do.

Hmmm... You somehwat remind of Septy when she was in sixth grade, Kike. :think:

*calls for Septy to help*

Hmmm... You somehwat remind of Septy when she was in sixth grade, Kike. :think:

*calls for Septy to help*
Who's Septy?

Weird. Just yesterday, me and my friends were all talking about how we hate the guy that I like and then, *poof* I don't have that crush on him anymore. I just care for him for a brother now even though he's not really my brother.

funny how things turn out in the end. Well glad you got over him.

My response to that is that girls can't throw so you'd never hit us.

I can throw. lucky i don't know u, u'd have a cricket ball in ur head!!

anyway, back to thread.

one way my friend did was think of all the annoying things he does or bad/yuck things and just keep thinking about that. it worked for her. :\ ^_^

i think just forget about him, ignore him works. look for other guys out side of school if the rest of the ones at ur school are duds (usually are :P ).

anyone got any idea about this:

i went out with this guy, and then we broke up. now we're back to being friends and i've started liking him again. anyone know how i can over this stupid thing?? i've tried wat i typed above.

I can catch so no worries :P

you could ask him out again and get rejected. The feeling would prevent you from even thinking of it the next time.

i don't think i'll do that